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Really, really, REALLY need your help. Falling apart. Son's marriage related.
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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 300332" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>MWM--</p><p> </p><p>I really, truly think you need to get over the whole "hate" thing. Your attitude needs to be <em>well, so what</em>? (and yes, I really do know what I'm talking about--my family has so many members that hate each other, and me, over nothing or over minor, stupid stuff--it's really ridiculous).... I mean your life goes on whether this woman likes you or not....</p><p> </p><p>And if you can truly develop a "so what" attitude about the "hate" stuff--eventually, your daughter in law will probably come around. If she's a viscious, nasty and vengeful person, at the very least she will need to visit with you to get some new material to complain about. So what? At least you got a visit. And if her attitude and disrespectful snubbing doesn't seem to bother you it will only irritate her more. </p><p> </p><p>If she never comes around...so what?</p><p> </p><p>If she does eventually come around...great--but hey, you're not going to bend over backwards for her.</p><p> </p><p>Move to Alaska if it will make you feel better. Why not? Nothing is stopping you. But don't move out of a sense of spite--daughter in law will never know that you are trying to spite her anyway.</p><p> </p><p>As for your son? Be there for him. He loves you and always will. If his wife cannot bear to be a part of your family anymore? So what?</p><p> </p><p>He deserves better and so do you....</p><p> </p><p>--DaisyF</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 300332, member: 6546"] MWM-- I really, truly think you need to get over the whole "hate" thing. Your attitude needs to be [I]well, so what[/I]? (and yes, I really do know what I'm talking about--my family has so many members that hate each other, and me, over nothing or over minor, stupid stuff--it's really ridiculous).... I mean your life goes on whether this woman likes you or not.... And if you can truly develop a "so what" attitude about the "hate" stuff--eventually, your daughter in law will probably come around. If she's a viscious, nasty and vengeful person, at the very least she will need to visit with you to get some new material to complain about. So what? At least you got a visit. And if her attitude and disrespectful snubbing doesn't seem to bother you it will only irritate her more. If she never comes around...so what? If she does eventually come around...great--but hey, you're not going to bend over backwards for her. Move to Alaska if it will make you feel better. Why not? Nothing is stopping you. But don't move out of a sense of spite--daughter in law will never know that you are trying to spite her anyway. As for your son? Be there for him. He loves you and always will. If his wife cannot bear to be a part of your family anymore? So what? He deserves better and so do you.... --DaisyF [/QUOTE]
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