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<blockquote data-quote="Dollhouse" data-source="post: 258175"><p><span style="color: navy">I know you don't "know" me at all, but I'm being honest. This man NEVER contacts his son and while he has paid support faithfully (through court-ordered garnishment), he is now trying to stop support.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: navy">When my son applied to college, I sent him multiple requests to see if we could talk about splitting the costs. He NEVER reponded. So, to enroll my son in school, I took out a huge loan. I have all this documented. For the few times he did respond, he wrote illogical sentences about me that had nothing to do with the college situation. He's nuts (for lack of a better word).</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: navy">This is a man who once jumped on my car when I tried to leave and stop him from taking my son for the weekend. Everytime he saw me, he would verbally and emotionally abused me. My counselor at the time said that if he did that in front of my young son, to put the boy back in the car and go home. As I tried to do that, he pulled and tugged on my son (who got scared). As I tried to drive away, he JUMPED on to my moving car and I actually drove a few feet with him on it. He said "I made him do it".</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: navy">Long story short, he's crazy -- has tried to take me to court to NOT pay support (and he LOST). We went to mediation and he tried to say that I do not allow him to talk to my son. At the time, my son had a 16th birthday coming up, in which I sent invites postmarked to him and his family. Something told me that day to make copies for the mediation. When he stated his lie that he 1) Never knew my son was having a party & 2) He never rec'vd an invite, I pulled out the postmarked envelopes which my son had made out in his own handwriting. If he could have murdered me right there, he would have done it. The mediator initated a FORCED court-ordered visit to have my ex fly my son down to his home for Christmas break that year ('06) because my ex had not seen my son in a long time. In front of the mediator, he started to refuse and said that I should pay for the plane costs. The mediator said "First of all, you are taking HER to court, saying she doesn't let you see him. I'm giving you an opportunity to do that, so why are you complaing?? Also, you should pay for the plane fare for your son to visit". He was reeling....Even with that, he didn't want to be involved. That's the last my son saw of him. It's not 2009.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: navy">I should fight this -- my son is NOT emotionally or physically ready to take care of himself and he will hopefully be starting counseling. If I get his diagnosis next week, I will use that if I have to, to prove my son is not well. I also think he should pay for part of the college costs -- he would not respond to me and I can prove it. Thank God I'm good at keeping details/email records.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: navy">What a jerk....He's evil incarnate (I could write a book on everything he's done to me and my son) and this is just like him to severe all ties, albeit financially with this kid. He hasn't seen the kid since 2006!!! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/surprise.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":surprise:" title="surprise :surprise:" data-shortname=":surprise:" /></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dollhouse, post: 258175"] [COLOR=navy]I know you don't "know" me at all, but I'm being honest. This man NEVER contacts his son and while he has paid support faithfully (through court-ordered garnishment), he is now trying to stop support.[/COLOR] [COLOR=navy]When my son applied to college, I sent him multiple requests to see if we could talk about splitting the costs. He NEVER reponded. So, to enroll my son in school, I took out a huge loan. I have all this documented. For the few times he did respond, he wrote illogical sentences about me that had nothing to do with the college situation. He's nuts (for lack of a better word).[/COLOR] [COLOR=navy]This is a man who once jumped on my car when I tried to leave and stop him from taking my son for the weekend. Everytime he saw me, he would verbally and emotionally abused me. My counselor at the time said that if he did that in front of my young son, to put the boy back in the car and go home. As I tried to do that, he pulled and tugged on my son (who got scared). As I tried to drive away, he JUMPED on to my moving car and I actually drove a few feet with him on it. He said "I made him do it".[/COLOR] [COLOR=navy]Long story short, he's crazy -- has tried to take me to court to NOT pay support (and he LOST). We went to mediation and he tried to say that I do not allow him to talk to my son. At the time, my son had a 16th birthday coming up, in which I sent invites postmarked to him and his family. Something told me that day to make copies for the mediation. When he stated his lie that he 1) Never knew my son was having a party & 2) He never rec'vd an invite, I pulled out the postmarked envelopes which my son had made out in his own handwriting. If he could have murdered me right there, he would have done it. The mediator initated a FORCED court-ordered visit to have my ex fly my son down to his home for Christmas break that year ('06) because my ex had not seen my son in a long time. In front of the mediator, he started to refuse and said that I should pay for the plane costs. The mediator said "First of all, you are taking HER to court, saying she doesn't let you see him. I'm giving you an opportunity to do that, so why are you complaing?? Also, you should pay for the plane fare for your son to visit". He was reeling....Even with that, he didn't want to be involved. That's the last my son saw of him. It's not 2009.[/COLOR] [COLOR=navy]I should fight this -- my son is NOT emotionally or physically ready to take care of himself and he will hopefully be starting counseling. If I get his diagnosis next week, I will use that if I have to, to prove my son is not well. I also think he should pay for part of the college costs -- he would not respond to me and I can prove it. Thank God I'm good at keeping details/email records.[/COLOR] [COLOR=navy]What a jerk....He's evil incarnate (I could write a book on everything he's done to me and my son) and this is just like him to severe all ties, albeit financially with this kid. He hasn't seen the kid since 2006!!! :surprised1:[/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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