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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 619403" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Hi Bby,</p><p></p><p>I do hope you get treatment and help. It sounds like you really want it but are scared and ashamed and all those other feelings. I suggest if you havent seen it to go online and look up The Anonymous People.... it is a good film about people in recovery etc. I just saw it the other night at my sons program.</p><p></p><p>I understand your husband is upset and angry. He is probably angry because he knows you are not telling him the truth..... I really think that there is no hope for a marriage relationship where there is dishonesty. I know with my son the hardest thing for me is that I really cant trust him and what he tells me.... hopefully as he gets sober that will get better.</p><p></p><p>I think there is no hope for your marriage if you continue to be dishonest with your husband. I have no idea what the situation will be if you do tell him the truth, but really I think that is your only chance is to own up to whats going on and ask for his help and tell him you need rehab.</p><p></p><p>And in the ned no matter what happens you will at least know you took responsibility and was honest with him.</p><p></p><p>On our trip to Cambodia we went to some temples... had a great guide who once was a Buddist monk. He told us something that Buddha said that makes a lot of sense and I think applies to all of us that need to take one day at a time.</p><p></p><p>"If you live with your left food in the past and your right foot in the future then you pee on today!! </p><p></p><p>And of course he told us this standing up as a male and so it gave us a visual picture. LOL.</p><p></p><p>TL</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent from my iPad using ConductDisorders</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 619403, member: 15801"] Hi Bby, I do hope you get treatment and help. It sounds like you really want it but are scared and ashamed and all those other feelings. I suggest if you havent seen it to go online and look up The Anonymous People.... it is a good film about people in recovery etc. I just saw it the other night at my sons program. I understand your husband is upset and angry. He is probably angry because he knows you are not telling him the truth..... I really think that there is no hope for a marriage relationship where there is dishonesty. I know with my son the hardest thing for me is that I really cant trust him and what he tells me.... hopefully as he gets sober that will get better. I think there is no hope for your marriage if you continue to be dishonest with your husband. I have no idea what the situation will be if you do tell him the truth, but really I think that is your only chance is to own up to whats going on and ask for his help and tell him you need rehab. And in the ned no matter what happens you will at least know you took responsibility and was honest with him. On our trip to Cambodia we went to some temples... had a great guide who once was a Buddist monk. He told us something that Buddha said that makes a lot of sense and I think applies to all of us that need to take one day at a time. "If you live with your left food in the past and your right foot in the future then you pee on today!! And of course he told us this standing up as a male and so it gave us a visual picture. LOL. TL Sent from my iPad using ConductDisorders [/QUOTE]
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