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<blockquote data-quote="HopeRemains" data-source="post: 533688" data-attributes="member: 14139"><p>And... I have no idea why she would think we should just 'get over it'. She said it was a long time ago. No time is too long when it's your child who has been hurt and you still HAVE to send him over to the place it happened. Long story short: BM and this guy were fighting, physically, as they did a LOT. difficult child threw a frisbee at his head, difficult child got snached up by his throat against the wall and screamed at. BM took him and started walking to her parent's. Her boyfriend drove by and threw a slurpee on them. This is the event as told to husband by BM back then. Now she won't admit to it. Her uncle heard the screaming (guess he lived next to them) and called the police. BM wouldn't press charges. </p><p></p><p>Ours is a messed up situation, because we are seperated by a state line. husband tried to follow up on the charges but he couldn't because she wouldn't press charges. He also tried to talk to that state's CPS, who couldn't help. What he should have done was go to our county's court to try to get some help. He didn't know that back then. In the decree, he does have the right of first refusal, but BM won't adhere to it at all and leaves difficult child with her now husband (who difficult child has no problem with now and calls him "Daddy") just to make husband upset. She started taking her regular visits a couple of years ago which are every other weekend.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HopeRemains, post: 533688, member: 14139"] And... I have no idea why she would think we should just 'get over it'. She said it was a long time ago. No time is too long when it's your child who has been hurt and you still HAVE to send him over to the place it happened. Long story short: BM and this guy were fighting, physically, as they did a LOT. difficult child threw a frisbee at his head, difficult child got snached up by his throat against the wall and screamed at. BM took him and started walking to her parent's. Her boyfriend drove by and threw a slurpee on them. This is the event as told to husband by BM back then. Now she won't admit to it. Her uncle heard the screaming (guess he lived next to them) and called the police. BM wouldn't press charges. Ours is a messed up situation, because we are seperated by a state line. husband tried to follow up on the charges but he couldn't because she wouldn't press charges. He also tried to talk to that state's CPS, who couldn't help. What he should have done was go to our county's court to try to get some help. He didn't know that back then. In the decree, he does have the right of first refusal, but BM won't adhere to it at all and leaves difficult child with her now husband (who difficult child has no problem with now and calls him "Daddy") just to make husband upset. She started taking her regular visits a couple of years ago which are every other weekend. [/QUOTE]
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