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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 568304" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>Yes, I know exactly what you mean! It has to be measurable for him. The thing, all of what you mentioned: V does, willingly. That's why we don't have behavior issues anymore. I often have to remind him to check his board (some sort of picture schedule and check what he has done) but then he goes and does everything.</p><p>I'm not having a therapist into our home because there is behaviors issues. </p><p>I wish someone could guide me on helping V be more flexible in his thinking and interaction with people. That's what creates conflicts within siblings and the family in general.</p><p>Maybe I want to do too much too fast with him... He has done so much progress since we use the visuals, put more thoughts into transitions, take time to explain what is going on around him.</p><p>I was hoping to move to a next step. Not really being sure what the next step should be.</p><p>To be honest, I don't belong in this forum anymore. Not like I did when I fisrt joined. But it is just such a wealth of knowledge and kind people.</p><p>If it wasn't for all of your support, V would not be functioning so good today. But his Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) traits are also showing more and more.</p><p>At 5, there is so much hope and I know his brain can be shaped all the while respecting who he is. This reward system is an insult to who he is. He needs something measurable, meaningful and consistent. Something to help him grow, not stress him more.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 568304, member: 11847"] Yes, I know exactly what you mean! It has to be measurable for him. The thing, all of what you mentioned: V does, willingly. That's why we don't have behavior issues anymore. I often have to remind him to check his board (some sort of picture schedule and check what he has done) but then he goes and does everything. I'm not having a therapist into our home because there is behaviors issues. I wish someone could guide me on helping V be more flexible in his thinking and interaction with people. That's what creates conflicts within siblings and the family in general. Maybe I want to do too much too fast with him... He has done so much progress since we use the visuals, put more thoughts into transitions, take time to explain what is going on around him. I was hoping to move to a next step. Not really being sure what the next step should be. To be honest, I don't belong in this forum anymore. Not like I did when I fisrt joined. But it is just such a wealth of knowledge and kind people. If it wasn't for all of your support, V would not be functioning so good today. But his Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) traits are also showing more and more. At 5, there is so much hope and I know his brain can be shaped all the while respecting who he is. This reward system is an insult to who he is. He needs something measurable, meaningful and consistent. Something to help him grow, not stress him more. [/QUOTE]
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