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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 459604" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>New therapist for sure! By the way, it is not uncommon for our husbands to leave all this stuff to us. I go to NAMI meetings and my husband(who I drag with me when he can) and an occational other man are the only males to show. What they say is usually doused in anger-this is safer than showing the underlying hurt. They have a different brain than ours. It is not unreasonable for him to help-that is the reason for therapy-help him understand the strain this is on you, learn to work together and find time to take care of your relationship. This is difficult when you are caring for tough kids. Find someone with experience in helping families with kids who need more care. I also recommend finding someone who has a family-any young therapist (with no child rearing experience) we have ever had, was worthless for us. Stay at it, it's hard to find the right person.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 459604, member: 11001"] New therapist for sure! By the way, it is not uncommon for our husbands to leave all this stuff to us. I go to NAMI meetings and my husband(who I drag with me when he can) and an occational other man are the only males to show. What they say is usually doused in anger-this is safer than showing the underlying hurt. They have a different brain than ours. It is not unreasonable for him to help-that is the reason for therapy-help him understand the strain this is on you, learn to work together and find time to take care of your relationship. This is difficult when you are caring for tough kids. Find someone with experience in helping families with kids who need more care. I also recommend finding someone who has a family-any young therapist (with no child rearing experience) we have ever had, was worthless for us. Stay at it, it's hard to find the right person. [/QUOTE]
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