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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 605509"><p>Bunny- No he hasnt been tested. since a year and half old they kepts saying / kep saying he's all boy and I just need to learn to be in control. One Dr at the pratice finally gave into my pleading and begging and sent us to a Dr of Pscytry or something.. ( never could remeber what exactly he is and I threw out the card when he was in kinder) He went three times, first two he said problem Anxiety and ODD. Second time suggested maybe a pill to get him to calm down so we can start behavior therapy. Third time my son played nice with him with the blocks and stuff and he said" your son is bright and you need to just let him grow" Let him grow? What? </p><p></p><p>TeDo- Thank you for your advice, I thought he was different when he was a year and half when all this really started, my dad agrees with me theres something wrong w him, but the rest of my family and dr says its me. My best friend supports me and says just take him to the hospital ( her daughter is Bipolar with something else). My other close friend says hes an angel even tho she came to calm him down many times! I try to keep it short with what to do etc but I will do better. So I have it drilled in my head its me. Had a bath lastinght, started at 5:11 am and now its 7:13am and now 7:20 am. Takes 15 minutes est to get to school.. So anyway neighbors were all out staring at the house now listening to all the screaming and he left. Ok, I have that book everyone suggested. I will re-read it again. Im calling his Dr in 30 min when they open and make another appointment.</p><p></p><p>Thats why I am here to report every bit of behavior to you all who have been thru this or other things and who can give me your alls opinion and advice. I know I can improve. You know, if you all dont mind Im going to print all my posts and responses and show them to his Dr. Oh, also, I had mentioned to his speech therapist last year when we talked..she def thinks hes ADD. So, Im going to give her a call as well- she said she would talk to the Dr as well. The dr didnt want to hear it before but with an army of these posts, the speech therapist ( oh hes done with speech but shes still willing to help) and hopefully his new teacher which I have a meeting w this week will talk to him. Gotta work?</p><p></p><p>They mentioned sarcastically that they would come here, talk to neighbors and go to his class and observe him. Problem is when they go in his class, he holds back his ways as much as he can when theres someone new in the class. They would have to act like a helper and go daily for a couple weeks before he really relaxes and is himself. I dont understand that about him. I know here someone told me they can hold everything in at school ( or at least almost everything) and blow the second they come home to a safe place. I don't know. Thats another reason no one believes me. But he does act this way with all my family, sometimes at the doctors office, yes there! In public, in front of his neighbors -well some of them he knows well. In school he doesnt do his work and I will see what his new Teacher says. </p><p></p><p>Thank u <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 605509"] Bunny- No he hasnt been tested. since a year and half old they kepts saying / kep saying he's all boy and I just need to learn to be in control. One Dr at the pratice finally gave into my pleading and begging and sent us to a Dr of Pscytry or something.. ( never could remeber what exactly he is and I threw out the card when he was in kinder) He went three times, first two he said problem Anxiety and ODD. Second time suggested maybe a pill to get him to calm down so we can start behavior therapy. Third time my son played nice with him with the blocks and stuff and he said" your son is bright and you need to just let him grow" Let him grow? What? TeDo- Thank you for your advice, I thought he was different when he was a year and half when all this really started, my dad agrees with me theres something wrong w him, but the rest of my family and dr says its me. My best friend supports me and says just take him to the hospital ( her daughter is Bipolar with something else). My other close friend says hes an angel even tho she came to calm him down many times! I try to keep it short with what to do etc but I will do better. So I have it drilled in my head its me. Had a bath lastinght, started at 5:11 am and now its 7:13am and now 7:20 am. Takes 15 minutes est to get to school.. So anyway neighbors were all out staring at the house now listening to all the screaming and he left. Ok, I have that book everyone suggested. I will re-read it again. Im calling his Dr in 30 min when they open and make another appointment. Thats why I am here to report every bit of behavior to you all who have been thru this or other things and who can give me your alls opinion and advice. I know I can improve. You know, if you all dont mind Im going to print all my posts and responses and show them to his Dr. Oh, also, I had mentioned to his speech therapist last year when we talked..she def thinks hes ADD. So, Im going to give her a call as well- she said she would talk to the Dr as well. The dr didnt want to hear it before but with an army of these posts, the speech therapist ( oh hes done with speech but shes still willing to help) and hopefully his new teacher which I have a meeting w this week will talk to him. Gotta work? They mentioned sarcastically that they would come here, talk to neighbors and go to his class and observe him. Problem is when they go in his class, he holds back his ways as much as he can when theres someone new in the class. They would have to act like a helper and go daily for a couple weeks before he really relaxes and is himself. I dont understand that about him. I know here someone told me they can hold everything in at school ( or at least almost everything) and blow the second they come home to a safe place. I don't know. Thats another reason no one believes me. But he does act this way with all my family, sometimes at the doctors office, yes there! In public, in front of his neighbors -well some of them he knows well. In school he doesnt do his work and I will see what his new Teacher says. Thank u :) [/QUOTE]
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