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Scared: New Baby Arriving in April 2011
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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 390724" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>I'm sorry that he is unable right now to share in your joy at the prospect of a new bundle of love. I hope that his heart opens soon to the idea of a new blessing. I am sorry you are doing this kind of on your own right now and I do hope he shows up for your appointments etc. (((hugs)))</p><p></p><p>My ex, easy child's father, had 3 kids from a marriage before I met him. He never told me he didn't want more children, but we were not at all planning to have kids when suddenly there we were, me pregnant. I clearly remember telling him. He minced no words, told me he absolutely wanted NO MORE children. He told me that he couldn't stop me having easy child, but he would resent this child always and that he'd pay support but otherwise I'd be on my own raising her. I fully expected him to hold firm to that, he was pretty convincing when he told me that and quietly walked out the front door. </p><p>He wept the moment she was born. He was first to hold her. And although he and I didn't make a relationship last beyond her newborn first few months, she is the apple of his eye so to speak. She is now 11 years old, and he is remarried. He had a vasectomy when easy child was a week old. His 3 children from his first marriage are into their very late teens and early twenties. And he had a reversal a couple years back and he and his wife are trying very hard to have a child (Would be his wife's first child). </p><p>I will hope for you that your husbands heart will open. Meanwhile, congratulations on your pregnancy. Children are a gift and a beautiful new baby is coming. That is a wonderful thing!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 390724, member: 4264"] I'm sorry that he is unable right now to share in your joy at the prospect of a new bundle of love. I hope that his heart opens soon to the idea of a new blessing. I am sorry you are doing this kind of on your own right now and I do hope he shows up for your appointments etc. (((hugs))) My ex, easy child's father, had 3 kids from a marriage before I met him. He never told me he didn't want more children, but we were not at all planning to have kids when suddenly there we were, me pregnant. I clearly remember telling him. He minced no words, told me he absolutely wanted NO MORE children. He told me that he couldn't stop me having easy child, but he would resent this child always and that he'd pay support but otherwise I'd be on my own raising her. I fully expected him to hold firm to that, he was pretty convincing when he told me that and quietly walked out the front door. He wept the moment she was born. He was first to hold her. And although he and I didn't make a relationship last beyond her newborn first few months, she is the apple of his eye so to speak. She is now 11 years old, and he is remarried. He had a vasectomy when easy child was a week old. His 3 children from his first marriage are into their very late teens and early twenties. And he had a reversal a couple years back and he and his wife are trying very hard to have a child (Would be his wife's first child). I will hope for you that your husbands heart will open. Meanwhile, congratulations on your pregnancy. Children are a gift and a beautiful new baby is coming. That is a wonderful thing! [/QUOTE]
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