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Scared of 21yo stepson
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 291292" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I'm sorry that you feel like a prisoner in your own home. Truthfully I not only have not had that experience but I have become a strong personality in my adult life and I wouldn't live with it. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/redface.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":redface:" title="redface :redface:" data-shortname=":redface:" /> Sometimes on the Board I sound anti-spouse but truthfully IF I felt scared (evidently with very good reason in your case) AND my husband let his parental guilt dominate his actions or lack of actions, I'd be saying "husband I love you but I love myself too. I have tried numerous times to discuss the issues with SS and you are not taking my fears seriously. I will be finding a place to stay until I feel it is safe to come home."</p><p> </p><p>Yes, I know many people would not do that or consider doing that. on the other hand personal safety is extremely important. Furthermore, the longer the young adult is in the "drivers seat" the more powerful the rush becomes.</p><p> </p><p>I hope some others come along and give their input. If your "gut" tells you that you are in danger....in my humble opinion, you are in danger. I'm sending caring thoughts your way. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 291292, member: 35"] I'm sorry that you feel like a prisoner in your own home. Truthfully I not only have not had that experience but I have become a strong personality in my adult life and I wouldn't live with it. :blushing: Sometimes on the Board I sound anti-spouse but truthfully IF I felt scared (evidently with very good reason in your case) AND my husband let his parental guilt dominate his actions or lack of actions, I'd be saying "husband I love you but I love myself too. I have tried numerous times to discuss the issues with SS and you are not taking my fears seriously. I will be finding a place to stay until I feel it is safe to come home." Yes, I know many people would not do that or consider doing that. on the other hand personal safety is extremely important. Furthermore, the longer the young adult is in the "drivers seat" the more powerful the rush becomes. I hope some others come along and give their input. If your "gut" tells you that you are in danger....in my humble opinion, you are in danger. I'm sending caring thoughts your way. DDD [/QUOTE]
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