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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 291432" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>If you are afraid, and have no money or not enough money and no friends who are in a position to let you stay with them for a while, go to a domestic violence shelter. Usually you go to an office and from there they will send you to the actual shelter. </p><p></p><p>This IS domestic violence, even if he never lays a finger on you. Just the mumbled threats qualify.</p><p></p><p>Even if you don't need resources from the DV place, go and get some counseling and advice from them. It is free. It is amazingly helpful and reassuring. They will also know your rights. </p><p></p><p>If husband is afraid his family will see him in a bad light then he KNOWS what he is doing is wrong and chooses to do it anyway. I hope and pray that his family DOES find out what is going on. Go ahead and call the family members you are close to and let them know what is going on, if you feel that the reactions won't leave you open to more danger. If having his family learn about what is going on is enough to increase the danger you are in, RUN. </p><p></p><p></p><p>RUN FAST.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p> RUN FAR. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Maybe you can go and stay with one of the family members on his side if you are close to them.</p><p></p><p>Just make sure you are SAFE. Worry about everything else after that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 291432, member: 1233"] If you are afraid, and have no money or not enough money and no friends who are in a position to let you stay with them for a while, go to a domestic violence shelter. Usually you go to an office and from there they will send you to the actual shelter. This IS domestic violence, even if he never lays a finger on you. Just the mumbled threats qualify. Even if you don't need resources from the DV place, go and get some counseling and advice from them. It is free. It is amazingly helpful and reassuring. They will also know your rights. If husband is afraid his family will see him in a bad light then he KNOWS what he is doing is wrong and chooses to do it anyway. I hope and pray that his family DOES find out what is going on. Go ahead and call the family members you are close to and let them know what is going on, if you feel that the reactions won't leave you open to more danger. If having his family learn about what is going on is enough to increase the danger you are in, RUN. RUN FAST. RUN FAR. Maybe you can go and stay with one of the family members on his side if you are close to them. Just make sure you are SAFE. Worry about everything else after that. [/QUOTE]
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