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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 514736" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Here's my cost/benefit analysis:</p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #000080">If you do this, how does it help you?</span> It proves amongst<em> his </em>peers that he is and always has been a liar and I always did tell the truth.</p><p></p><p><span style="color: #000080">What do you want to get out of it?</span> Revenge and/or money. As much pain for him as I can see to it that he gets.</p><p></p><p><span style="color: #000080">What are the risks to you if you do it?</span> None that I can see. I'll be gone, and they all hate me anyway. I'm not the one that signed sworn notarized false statements of facts that were lies and then filed them with a court, so I just can't see how this can bite me in the behind.</p><p></p><p><span style="color: #000080">What are the risks to you if you don't do it?</span> I will have let my last opportunity to do this slip by because I have left the state and have no standing.</p><p></p><p>I know that the revenge aspect of this sounds problematic, but the truth of it is I'm not ever going to feel like I was treated rightly in this situation. I'm not ever going to wish that life is easy for him. All I know is that as long as this has gone on I have regretted not standing up to him and making him play by the rules. Now the reason for giving him a pass is gone, I feel like I should do what it is that I've always wanted. I don't know if I'll be able to live with myself if I walk away from it now when there's no reason not to do it.</p><p></p><p>My only question about it, I guess, is how much do I make him squirm? Do I have an attorney contact him and tell him what I'm up to after we've gathered the evidence? It's all public record. He just filed it in two different counties thinking that no one would ever find it. Or do I just have the bar complaint slapped on him and walk away?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 514736, member: 99"] Here's my cost/benefit analysis: [COLOR=#000080]If you do this, how does it help you?[/COLOR] It proves amongst[I] his [/I]peers that he is and always has been a liar and I always did tell the truth. [COLOR=#000080]What do you want to get out of it?[/COLOR] Revenge and/or money. As much pain for him as I can see to it that he gets. [COLOR=#000080]What are the risks to you if you do it?[/COLOR] None that I can see. I'll be gone, and they all hate me anyway. I'm not the one that signed sworn notarized false statements of facts that were lies and then filed them with a court, so I just can't see how this can bite me in the behind. [COLOR=#000080]What are the risks to you if you don't do it?[/COLOR] I will have let my last opportunity to do this slip by because I have left the state and have no standing. I know that the revenge aspect of this sounds problematic, but the truth of it is I'm not ever going to feel like I was treated rightly in this situation. I'm not ever going to wish that life is easy for him. All I know is that as long as this has gone on I have regretted not standing up to him and making him play by the rules. Now the reason for giving him a pass is gone, I feel like I should do what it is that I've always wanted. I don't know if I'll be able to live with myself if I walk away from it now when there's no reason not to do it. My only question about it, I guess, is how much do I make him squirm? Do I have an attorney contact him and tell him what I'm up to after we've gathered the evidence? It's all public record. He just filed it in two different counties thinking that no one would ever find it. Or do I just have the bar complaint slapped on him and walk away? [/QUOTE]
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