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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 515212" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>I think so too Witz! I know where you're coming from and I say if you're absolutely sure that there's no way he can possibly get back at you and hurt you, GO FOR IT! I went through a lot of the same things during my divorce, although certainly not as bad or for as long as you did. And getting back at him, even in little ways, was tremendously rewarding! It really helped me to feel empowered again and helped to get me out of that "victim mentality". I absolutely relished it! I never once invented anything or embellished anything. I didn't have to. He did it to himself. All I did was to bring a few things that I knew about to the attention of the right people. In most cases he may not have even known that it was <u><em>me</em></u> who blew the whistle on him but <em><u>I</u></em> knew and that was enough! When he tried to claim our son on his income tax return after I had already filed and claimed him (in our divorce decree that I got to claim him every year), it was ME that reported it to the IRS and he had to pay back the extra money he got! And when I got wind of it that he and his new girlfriend were planning to move out of their house in the middle of the night to keep from paying the rent they owed, it was ME that tipped off his landlord, a friend of mine. And when I found out that he had skipped out on several hundred dollars he owed to the tire store owner in town, I was more than happy to supply him with his new address so he could sue him! And when his new girlfriend found out that she was now on the "not eligible for rehire" list at her former job, that was ME too! There were a few things that she did that I knew about but they didn't - now they do! Happy to oblige! He never knew it was me ... he just thought he had a really long run of very bad luck! And when he lost his job because he thought the rules didn't apply to him, and when his new wife that he had dumped us for turned around and did the exact same thing to him? I reveled in it! I danced around singing and absolutely wallowed in it! It's good when the evil that people do catches up with them ... it's even better when you get to watch it happen!</p><p></p><p>So Witz, if doing this to him will give you even half the pleasure that I think it will, I say go for it! You're not inventing anything, he chose to do this to himself! All you're doing is bringing it to the attention of the right people. It's stilll not enough for all the horrible things he did to you, but it will do! Karma is a wonderful thing and eventually it catches up with these people, but sometimes it just needs a little nudge...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 515212, member: 1883"] I think so too Witz! I know where you're coming from and I say if you're absolutely sure that there's no way he can possibly get back at you and hurt you, GO FOR IT! I went through a lot of the same things during my divorce, although certainly not as bad or for as long as you did. And getting back at him, even in little ways, was tremendously rewarding! It really helped me to feel empowered again and helped to get me out of that "victim mentality". I absolutely relished it! I never once invented anything or embellished anything. I didn't have to. He did it to himself. All I did was to bring a few things that I knew about to the attention of the right people. In most cases he may not have even known that it was [U][I]me[/I][/U] who blew the whistle on him but [I][U]I[/U][/I] knew and that was enough! When he tried to claim our son on his income tax return after I had already filed and claimed him (in our divorce decree that I got to claim him every year), it was ME that reported it to the IRS and he had to pay back the extra money he got! And when I got wind of it that he and his new girlfriend were planning to move out of their house in the middle of the night to keep from paying the rent they owed, it was ME that tipped off his landlord, a friend of mine. And when I found out that he had skipped out on several hundred dollars he owed to the tire store owner in town, I was more than happy to supply him with his new address so he could sue him! And when his new girlfriend found out that she was now on the "not eligible for rehire" list at her former job, that was ME too! There were a few things that she did that I knew about but they didn't - now they do! Happy to oblige! He never knew it was me ... he just thought he had a really long run of very bad luck! And when he lost his job because he thought the rules didn't apply to him, and when his new wife that he had dumped us for turned around and did the exact same thing to him? I reveled in it! I danced around singing and absolutely wallowed in it! It's good when the evil that people do catches up with them ... it's even better when you get to watch it happen! So Witz, if doing this to him will give you even half the pleasure that I think it will, I say go for it! You're not inventing anything, he chose to do this to himself! All you're doing is bringing it to the attention of the right people. It's stilll not enough for all the horrible things he did to you, but it will do! Karma is a wonderful thing and eventually it catches up with these people, but sometimes it just needs a little nudge... [/QUOTE]
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