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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 642927" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>What a gift those moments are Albatross. Focus on those moments. I'm a believer in '<em>what you focus on expands'</em> where we put our attention becomes the fertile ground for thoughts to bloom...........when we're struggling it really is a human response to focus on the struggle, however, I am finding that when I disengage from focusing on the struggle and focus on what is actually working, what is working begins to expand and grow. </p><p></p><p>I've been focusing on staying in the moment and that leads me to focusing on gratitude for what is, which leads me to feel good and focus on what is positive and working.......the same cycle I was in with struggle and suffering.......round and round I go.........well what do you know, I have the power to shift that focus...........to shift it onto what is working........those moments talking to your son and allowing your lives to unfold, however they unfold.........and be okay with it, are the moments to expand............ I'm happy that you experienced those moments with your son.</p><p></p><p> I think it's a very important observation you're making.......you've taken huge steps in detachment and now acceptance is trickling in............little by little.........<em>and it all changes.....</em>.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 642927, member: 13542"] What a gift those moments are Albatross. Focus on those moments. I'm a believer in '[I]what you focus on expands'[/I] where we put our attention becomes the fertile ground for thoughts to bloom...........when we're struggling it really is a human response to focus on the struggle, however, I am finding that when I disengage from focusing on the struggle and focus on what is actually working, what is working begins to expand and grow. I've been focusing on staying in the moment and that leads me to focusing on gratitude for what is, which leads me to feel good and focus on what is positive and working.......the same cycle I was in with struggle and suffering.......round and round I go.........well what do you know, I have the power to shift that focus...........to shift it onto what is working........those moments talking to your son and allowing your lives to unfold, however they unfold.........and be okay with it, are the moments to expand............ I'm happy that you experienced those moments with your son. I think it's a very important observation you're making.......you've taken huge steps in detachment and now acceptance is trickling in............little by little.........[I]and it all changes.....[/I]..... [/QUOTE]
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