You may recall that easy child met a guy on match.com a couple of months ago. They've dated around 9 times. She's stayed over his house a few times, though swears they haven't had sex - her business, but I'm hoping she's being honest, jeez. In the interim she's dated a couple of others but that has dwindled and now it's just this one guy. He seems nice enough, BUT, he reminds me of Casper, I.e., controlling, insecure, ahem, not right for easy child. Then, just as I was thinking I'm imagining it, last weekend as H and I were driving home from LI, H tells me that he's picking up a 'vibe' about the new guy...a physical vibe, like he may be a tough guy. This would not surprise me in the least considering easy child's history with Casper, Know what I mean?? Anyway, she is heading to the cape with him tomorrow for an overnighter-please, if you think of it, make him do something stupid or make his family wackos enough for easy child to second guess her relationship with this guy. Thanks.