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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 344875" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Confuzzled, on my way home, I think I figured out the missing link you and I are having... I think (emphasis on think) that if the school can say wee's behavior is not his disability, and they say the suspensions are not a pattern, then they can choose the placement without my involvement. That is why I MUST prove its his disability and a pattern.</p><p> </p><p>I also know he's not getting what he needs andd they likely can't provide it. BUt they've been unwilling to provide anymore, either. If they want him mainstream, then they have to figure out how to deal with him. In the most recent testing, he ranks on the 0.3 percentile for working memory for his age...he's a VERY SLOW processor. They have to accommodate for that. Or get him somewhere else. I don't care which, but they can't just magically expect him to make it mainstream if they aren't going bend for what he needs to make it mainstream.</p><p> </p><p>SpEd director comes to all meetings. How much she knows beyond that, I'm not sure. I expect the superintendent to be there Monday, too. I have actually invited the paras to the IEP meetings before. So far, they've not come, but the school doesn't include them. They've got a flowchart of the BIP, and maybe an overview, but that's it.</p><p> </p><p>My conversation with the addvocate was better yesterday. She agrees we should fight homebound now that we had a chance to talk longer. I'm trying to prep myself as much as possible, but I think she might be ok now, we'll see. EI was in a different district, they conracted Wee to that district for those 2 years. Wee's SpEd techer is slated to be out 4 days in the month of March. They definitely have the need for another...</p><p> </p><p>Sharon, I am very close to that. I debated pulling Wee this week, and didn't. I will see where we get on Monday...I am angry and I think I have some good documentation to say, at the least, they've not done what they should have, and they obviously can't provide Wee FAPE unless they make some drastic changes. I may well pull him; but I'm not going to let them be the ones making that decision by saying its not his disability or whatever they may try. Beyond that, I may have no choice but to pull him...eacch incident gets a little worse, and Wee may not get over it enough to move forward there. </p><p> </p><p>JJJ, I got your PM and that is where the advocate came from. Others who have pm'ed me, thank you...I will try to repond this weekend...I'm completely overwhelmed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 344875, member: 1848"] Confuzzled, on my way home, I think I figured out the missing link you and I are having... I think (emphasis on think) that if the school can say wee's behavior is not his disability, and they say the suspensions are not a pattern, then they can choose the placement without my involvement. That is why I MUST prove its his disability and a pattern. I also know he's not getting what he needs andd they likely can't provide it. BUt they've been unwilling to provide anymore, either. If they want him mainstream, then they have to figure out how to deal with him. In the most recent testing, he ranks on the 0.3 percentile for working memory for his age...he's a VERY SLOW processor. They have to accommodate for that. Or get him somewhere else. I don't care which, but they can't just magically expect him to make it mainstream if they aren't going bend for what he needs to make it mainstream. SpEd director comes to all meetings. How much she knows beyond that, I'm not sure. I expect the superintendent to be there Monday, too. I have actually invited the paras to the IEP meetings before. So far, they've not come, but the school doesn't include them. They've got a flowchart of the BIP, and maybe an overview, but that's it. My conversation with the addvocate was better yesterday. She agrees we should fight homebound now that we had a chance to talk longer. I'm trying to prep myself as much as possible, but I think she might be ok now, we'll see. EI was in a different district, they conracted Wee to that district for those 2 years. Wee's SpEd techer is slated to be out 4 days in the month of March. They definitely have the need for another... Sharon, I am very close to that. I debated pulling Wee this week, and didn't. I will see where we get on Monday...I am angry and I think I have some good documentation to say, at the least, they've not done what they should have, and they obviously can't provide Wee FAPE unless they make some drastic changes. I may well pull him; but I'm not going to let them be the ones making that decision by saying its not his disability or whatever they may try. Beyond that, I may have no choice but to pull him...eacch incident gets a little worse, and Wee may not get over it enough to move forward there. JJJ, I got your PM and that is where the advocate came from. Others who have pm'ed me, thank you...I will try to repond this weekend...I'm completely overwhelmed. [/QUOTE]
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