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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 242555"><p>Hey all,</p><p></p><p>Well here we go again. My daughter had her first TASK appointment today. Which she didn't show up for. My sister and I were out last night and my husband called to tell me that my daughter was in my sister's apartment with some boy. Now, my daughter is not allowed in my sister's apartment because of her behavior and the fact that she can't be trusted. So, while I was on the phone with my husband he went downstairs to tell my daughter and her friend they had to leave. The boy left, she didn't. My husband then told her she must go or my sister was going to call the police because she does not have permission to be in her apartment when no one is home. She began her usual bs, cursing and threatening my husband. She said she was going to leave and not come back. My husband told her that would be her choice, no one is holding her here against her will. He warned her about missing her first TASK meeting, he told her that she would go back to jail if she didn't go. She said she didn't care, among other things that I will leave to your imagination!!! She left.</p><p></p><p>She didn't come home last night or this morning, so she missed her meeting. I called the TASK lady, very nice, very understanding of what my daughter's needs are. She said that my daughter needs to be put into an adult facility for a long period of time and then released with services and schooling, along with a job. I explained to her that that is what I have been fighting for. I told the DA all of this. She said that she has the power to recommend this to the judge. She first has to find a facility that would be appropriate for my daughter. Then it would be up to the judge. But she said that the Criminal Court System does have the authority to place her. I spent quite a bit of time on the phone with her, explaining everything that has been happening. She is missing curfew, being abusive and threatening and so on... I then called the DA's office. I spoke to one of the secretaries, the only one that is nice. I told her what has been happening and that she missed her TASK meeting and has been violating curfew and so forth. I explained to her that the TASK lady said that she felt my daughter needed to be placed, she was going to do the research to find a facility. I also told her that I would not be able to make court on Monday as I have doctor's appointment. She said that she strongly recommends that I cancel the appointment. and come to court. So, that is what I will do. I just hate that my life is still revolving around this darn kid. I do understand that it would be in my best interest to show up to court in light of what has happened. I need to go so that I can explain to the DA and the judge what has been going on myself. </p><p></p><p>I am just so sick of all of this drama!!!! I am not going to get my hopes up about her being placed because it never pans out!!! Youth Court fell through, so I don't want to put all of my eggs in this basket only to be disappointed. I am cautiously optimistic at this point. </p><p></p><p>This really stinks. Last night and today I am feeling a bit weak. I am sad again. I feel badly for my daughter. I have been so strong and doing so well with detaching. I so do not want to fall apart again. But I am feeling sad, I have an uneasy feeling again. That gnaw in your gut that sits there like a hundred pound weight. I have a nervous feeling, I am a bit shaky. I am trying to hold it together as I know that my daughter is doing this to herself. Logically I so get that. Emotionally I am feeling it a bit today. Don't get me wrong though, not to the point where I used to be, it hasn't taken over. I am going to try so hard not to let it.</p><p></p><p>UUURRRGGGHHHH!!!!!!!!!! This never ends!!!!!!!!!</p><p></p><p>Shawna <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 242555"] Hey all, Well here we go again. My daughter had her first TASK appointment today. Which she didn't show up for. My sister and I were out last night and my husband called to tell me that my daughter was in my sister's apartment with some boy. Now, my daughter is not allowed in my sister's apartment because of her behavior and the fact that she can't be trusted. So, while I was on the phone with my husband he went downstairs to tell my daughter and her friend they had to leave. The boy left, she didn't. My husband then told her she must go or my sister was going to call the police because she does not have permission to be in her apartment when no one is home. She began her usual bs, cursing and threatening my husband. She said she was going to leave and not come back. My husband told her that would be her choice, no one is holding her here against her will. He warned her about missing her first TASK meeting, he told her that she would go back to jail if she didn't go. She said she didn't care, among other things that I will leave to your imagination!!! She left. She didn't come home last night or this morning, so she missed her meeting. I called the TASK lady, very nice, very understanding of what my daughter's needs are. She said that my daughter needs to be put into an adult facility for a long period of time and then released with services and schooling, along with a job. I explained to her that that is what I have been fighting for. I told the DA all of this. She said that she has the power to recommend this to the judge. She first has to find a facility that would be appropriate for my daughter. Then it would be up to the judge. But she said that the Criminal Court System does have the authority to place her. I spent quite a bit of time on the phone with her, explaining everything that has been happening. She is missing curfew, being abusive and threatening and so on... I then called the DA's office. I spoke to one of the secretaries, the only one that is nice. I told her what has been happening and that she missed her TASK meeting and has been violating curfew and so forth. I explained to her that the TASK lady said that she felt my daughter needed to be placed, she was going to do the research to find a facility. I also told her that I would not be able to make court on Monday as I have doctor's appointment. She said that she strongly recommends that I cancel the appointment. and come to court. So, that is what I will do. I just hate that my life is still revolving around this darn kid. I do understand that it would be in my best interest to show up to court in light of what has happened. I need to go so that I can explain to the DA and the judge what has been going on myself. I am just so sick of all of this drama!!!! I am not going to get my hopes up about her being placed because it never pans out!!! Youth Court fell through, so I don't want to put all of my eggs in this basket only to be disappointed. I am cautiously optimistic at this point. This really stinks. Last night and today I am feeling a bit weak. I am sad again. I feel badly for my daughter. I have been so strong and doing so well with detaching. I so do not want to fall apart again. But I am feeling sad, I have an uneasy feeling again. That gnaw in your gut that sits there like a hundred pound weight. I have a nervous feeling, I am a bit shaky. I am trying to hold it together as I know that my daughter is doing this to herself. Logically I so get that. Emotionally I am feeling it a bit today. Don't get me wrong though, not to the point where I used to be, it hasn't taken over. I am going to try so hard not to let it. UUURRRGGGHHHH!!!!!!!!!! This never ends!!!!!!!!! Shawna :( [/QUOTE]
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