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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 678609" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi Skool, welcome to our little corner of the world. I am so glad you found us here. You will find much needed support and encouragement here.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry for what you are going through. It's all too familiar for me and many others here. Once our children destroy our trust nothing is ever the same again.</p><p></p><p></p><p>You did the right thing, the only thing that will bring you some peace and send a message to your daughter that you will no longer tolerate her disrespect and thievery.</p><p>I will tell you it does get easier with time. We will always worry about our kids but we learn over time that their choices on how they live are just that, their choices and once we accept that and understand that we cannot help them or change them we can move on with our lives.</p><p></p><p></p><p>You sound like you have a really good grasp on this. Bravo to the vacation. Our adult difficult children can literally suck the life force right out of us. Go have a relaxed time and recharge yourself.</p><p></p><p></p><p>You are on the right path. Please see the link below to a wonderful article about detachment.</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz3z1cJE13K" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz3z1cJE13K</a></p><p></p><p>This is a journey none of us want to be on but I can tell you from my own experience that you can survive this and go on to live a wonderful life.</p><p>I will however caution you that once we start to stand up for ourselves and tell our Difficult Child no more, they often will amp it up. They can bombard us with phone calls and texts begging and pleading but we have to stay strong. My son has sent me private FB messages before telling me he was going to starve and freeze to death, he has also threatened to kill himself. Our d_cs want us to feel guilty so that we will cave in and give them what they want. They will us all their manipulative skills to try and break us. Be strong and stand firm!!</p><p>You are here with us now. Stay close to this site, we are always here for each other.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you...........................</p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/notalone.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":notalone:" title="notalone :notalone:" data-shortname=":notalone:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/staystrong.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":staystrong:" title="staystrong :staystrong:" data-shortname=":staystrong:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 678609, member: 18516"] Hi Skool, welcome to our little corner of the world. I am so glad you found us here. You will find much needed support and encouragement here. I am so sorry for what you are going through. It's all too familiar for me and many others here. Once our children destroy our trust nothing is ever the same again. You did the right thing, the only thing that will bring you some peace and send a message to your daughter that you will no longer tolerate her disrespect and thievery. I will tell you it does get easier with time. We will always worry about our kids but we learn over time that their choices on how they live are just that, their choices and once we accept that and understand that we cannot help them or change them we can move on with our lives. You sound like you have a really good grasp on this. Bravo to the vacation. Our adult difficult children can literally suck the life force right out of us. Go have a relaxed time and recharge yourself. You are on the right path. Please see the link below to a wonderful article about detachment. [URL]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz3z1cJE13K[/URL] This is a journey none of us want to be on but I can tell you from my own experience that you can survive this and go on to live a wonderful life. I will however caution you that once we start to stand up for ourselves and tell our Difficult Child no more, they often will amp it up. They can bombard us with phone calls and texts begging and pleading but we have to stay strong. My son has sent me private FB messages before telling me he was going to starve and freeze to death, he has also threatened to kill himself. Our d_cs want us to feel guilty so that we will cave in and give them what they want. They will us all their manipulative skills to try and break us. Be strong and stand firm!! You are here with us now. Stay close to this site, we are always here for each other. ((HUGS)) to you........................... :notalone::staystrong: [/QUOTE]
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