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<blockquote data-quote="Skool Teacher" data-source="post: 678644" data-attributes="member: 20029"><p>Thank you everyone for your uplifting responses. I will read all articles and links that were suggested. Thanks for the hugs, I need those. Thanks for letting me know I'm not alone and that I've really done the best I can.</p><p></p><p>UPDATE...</p><p>When she came home there wasn't a big blow out. She walked in her room and saw that everything was packed and her bed was broken down and she was speechless and shocked. I asked her to give me the credit card. I reported it lost and it's being replaced along with me changing my pin number. I then asked for all of her keys. She gave them to me.</p><p></p><p>I told her she went too far this time and I was done. I told her to call someone that she could stay with because she was no longer going to live in my home and steal from me. She cried quietly and said no one was responding. She spent the night, slept on the floor and I took off from work so I could personally take her to where ever she was going to be staying. She took most of her stuff. I resisted the urge to tell her what to do because she has to do this for herself from now on. I removed her as a driver on my auto insurance policy today too.</p><p></p><p>I asked her why she did she do this and she didn't really respond. I asked her didn't she know I would find out. She said yes. I asked her how did she think I would react. She said just like I was.... she never said sorry nor did she beg to stay. She actually seemed angry and had an attitude. I asked her about the person she was going to be staying with and got a lot of vagueness, so I left it alone because at this point I really don't care just as long as she is gone.</p><p></p><p>When I dropped her off she didn't have anything to say. I told her to take this time to get her mind right so she can make better decisions. She said OK. She unloaded the truck and I drove off.</p><p></p><p>I felt sad. I didn't cry and I actually felt some relief. Within 30 minutes of my departure my she text me and asked me how long was I kicking her out for? I chuckled and thought to myself, she thinks that I'm joking and this is only going last for a few days or a week or two... NOT! Don't know if I'm going to ever let her come back because I have ZERO trust for her and don't believe that she will come back and do what's right. I have been through so much with her and I simply can't take anymore. I think she'll go right back to her same ways. I'm tired of the games and her never doing what she should or supposed to do. I won't be bamboozled anymore, child or not.</p><p></p><p>I cleaned out the truck, which was totally trashed. I really felt dumb for letting her use it only to have it be treated it in such a manner. She is totally ungrateful for all that I've done and provided for her. God blessed me to get her to adulthood without much struggle and this is how she acts towards me. Again...I'm done. She seems like she is truly going to have to learn the hard way. </p><p></p><p>Thanks again everyone and I will give everyone updates as they occur. Going to enjoy a glass of wine before bed and enjoy my peace. Praying that God protects and guides my wayward adult child now that she is truly on her own.</p><p></p><p>~Skool Teacher</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Skool Teacher, post: 678644, member: 20029"] Thank you everyone for your uplifting responses. I will read all articles and links that were suggested. Thanks for the hugs, I need those. Thanks for letting me know I'm not alone and that I've really done the best I can. UPDATE... When she came home there wasn't a big blow out. She walked in her room and saw that everything was packed and her bed was broken down and she was speechless and shocked. I asked her to give me the credit card. I reported it lost and it's being replaced along with me changing my pin number. I then asked for all of her keys. She gave them to me. I told her she went too far this time and I was done. I told her to call someone that she could stay with because she was no longer going to live in my home and steal from me. She cried quietly and said no one was responding. She spent the night, slept on the floor and I took off from work so I could personally take her to where ever she was going to be staying. She took most of her stuff. I resisted the urge to tell her what to do because she has to do this for herself from now on. I removed her as a driver on my auto insurance policy today too. I asked her why she did she do this and she didn't really respond. I asked her didn't she know I would find out. She said yes. I asked her how did she think I would react. She said just like I was.... she never said sorry nor did she beg to stay. She actually seemed angry and had an attitude. I asked her about the person she was going to be staying with and got a lot of vagueness, so I left it alone because at this point I really don't care just as long as she is gone. When I dropped her off she didn't have anything to say. I told her to take this time to get her mind right so she can make better decisions. She said OK. She unloaded the truck and I drove off. I felt sad. I didn't cry and I actually felt some relief. Within 30 minutes of my departure my she text me and asked me how long was I kicking her out for? I chuckled and thought to myself, she thinks that I'm joking and this is only going last for a few days or a week or two... NOT! Don't know if I'm going to ever let her come back because I have ZERO trust for her and don't believe that she will come back and do what's right. I have been through so much with her and I simply can't take anymore. I think she'll go right back to her same ways. I'm tired of the games and her never doing what she should or supposed to do. I won't be bamboozled anymore, child or not. I cleaned out the truck, which was totally trashed. I really felt dumb for letting her use it only to have it be treated it in such a manner. She is totally ungrateful for all that I've done and provided for her. God blessed me to get her to adulthood without much struggle and this is how she acts towards me. Again...I'm done. She seems like she is truly going to have to learn the hard way. Thanks again everyone and I will give everyone updates as they occur. Going to enjoy a glass of wine before bed and enjoy my peace. Praying that God protects and guides my wayward adult child now that she is truly on her own. ~Skool Teacher [/QUOTE]
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