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<blockquote data-quote="raylea" data-source="post: 640138" data-attributes="member: 18560"><p>I'm all about second chances. But if she has a history of bad checks, and I mean being prosecuted for bad checks I think it may be time for her to face the music. The biggest cons have the nicest faces and sweetest demeanors, how else could they "con" people into their schemes? </p><p></p><p>I am one of the worst money managers I will admit. Over the years I cant tell you how many checks of mine bounced. Either because I didnt figure my checkbook right or I tried to float a check a few days until payday, but I always paid the overdraft fee, paid where ever the check was too and carried on. These people who get charged for writing bad checks are blatantly taking advantage of a system they figure can give them a few extra bucks, to hell with the consequences. They are only sorry after they get caught.</p><p></p><p>The only thing that makes me hesitate about suggesting you press charges is how her children could possibly suffer. Thats a tough call. Im going to go out on a limb here and hope I dont offend anybody. I've known people who do these types of things, like forgery, theft etc.. and they usually wouldnt win parent of the year awards anyway. Maybe by forcing her to get a wake up call, straighten up and fly right she may get herself on the right track, and start a better, honest life for her and her kids. Hopefully she'll be forced to realize whats most important. Acyually I just re-read your post and SHE pays child support? As in she doesnt have residential custody? Wonder why that is, the mother usually has that custody unless there was some sort of problem with her. I wonder if she is current on the child support?</p><p></p><p>if she is that much of a dishonest person she probably shouldnt be taking care of such a vulnerable segment of our population. </p><p>I'm glad its not up to me which way this goes.</p><p>Sending positive thoughts your way for sure.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="raylea, post: 640138, member: 18560"] I'm all about second chances. But if she has a history of bad checks, and I mean being prosecuted for bad checks I think it may be time for her to face the music. The biggest cons have the nicest faces and sweetest demeanors, how else could they "con" people into their schemes? I am one of the worst money managers I will admit. Over the years I cant tell you how many checks of mine bounced. Either because I didnt figure my checkbook right or I tried to float a check a few days until payday, but I always paid the overdraft fee, paid where ever the check was too and carried on. These people who get charged for writing bad checks are blatantly taking advantage of a system they figure can give them a few extra bucks, to hell with the consequences. They are only sorry after they get caught. The only thing that makes me hesitate about suggesting you press charges is how her children could possibly suffer. Thats a tough call. Im going to go out on a limb here and hope I dont offend anybody. I've known people who do these types of things, like forgery, theft etc.. and they usually wouldnt win parent of the year awards anyway. Maybe by forcing her to get a wake up call, straighten up and fly right she may get herself on the right track, and start a better, honest life for her and her kids. Hopefully she'll be forced to realize whats most important. Acyually I just re-read your post and SHE pays child support? As in she doesnt have residential custody? Wonder why that is, the mother usually has that custody unless there was some sort of problem with her. I wonder if she is current on the child support? if she is that much of a dishonest person she probably shouldnt be taking care of such a vulnerable segment of our population. I'm glad its not up to me which way this goes. Sending positive thoughts your way for sure. [/QUOTE]
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