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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 503465" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Nancy, </p><p>Was just reading my FA book passages on relapse. </p><p>Here is one...</p><p></p><p>Release with Love</p><p> "My sister has found a 12 step program to help her stay clean and sober. Happy for her, I now wonder how I should behave where she's concerned. Fortunately, through FA, I am learning to release with love. </p><p> Sobriety is a wonderful for my sister, as well as for those of us who care about her. But FA has taught me that her sobriety is more likely to endure if she chooses it stricktly for her own reasons. </p><p>She will not be inclined to "stay clean" for anyone else. </p><p> Similarly, I've learned that I cannot pin my hopes and happiness on her sobriety. I love her, but I set her free to work her own program, just as I am free to continue my own program and growth. </p><p> Thus I release my sister from the need to stay clean to please me. If she stops drinking alcohol or using other drugs merely for my sake, she will not be clean or sober. She will just be "not using". </p><p></p><p>Today I will....release my loved one to her own recovery and get on with living my own life with joy. </p><p></p><p>I don't know if this helps Nancy. </p><p>But I am thinking of you. </p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 503465, member: 3305"] Nancy, Was just reading my FA book passages on relapse. Here is one... Release with Love "My sister has found a 12 step program to help her stay clean and sober. Happy for her, I now wonder how I should behave where she's concerned. Fortunately, through FA, I am learning to release with love. Sobriety is a wonderful for my sister, as well as for those of us who care about her. But FA has taught me that her sobriety is more likely to endure if she chooses it stricktly for her own reasons. She will not be inclined to "stay clean" for anyone else. Similarly, I've learned that I cannot pin my hopes and happiness on her sobriety. I love her, but I set her free to work her own program, just as I am free to continue my own program and growth. Thus I release my sister from the need to stay clean to please me. If she stops drinking alcohol or using other drugs merely for my sake, she will not be clean or sober. She will just be "not using". Today I will....release my loved one to her own recovery and get on with living my own life with joy. I don't know if this helps Nancy. But I am thinking of you. LMS [/QUOTE]
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