Not in the sense that she is in the streets but it sounds like her friend and her got in a fight and she's out of there now.
She is now staying with another friend. Not sure for how long. The last time she asked thus parents friend to live there they said sure, but you'll have to pay $200 a month.
She doesn't know that I know. She told my youngest and she to me today.
"Don't tell mom but I'm not at Es anymore, we got in a fight. I'm staying at Tourette's Syndrome for now but I do not want to move back home"
I feel bad but this us what she wanted. To be an adult. To make my own mistakes.
But I ask myself, was it so bad here that she would rather be 'homeless' than cons back home?
I don't think I even want her back because I dint think things have changed. Not yet anyway. She is welcome jobs but I wi not ask her to come home.
Do I still keep my distance? Our contact is mainly text and it's brief.
I miss her but I think I am getting a little stronger day by day.
Thank you again! I've read so many replies to other peoples stories and you women have the best advice. I have even screenshoted a few things said in here for reference.
ME
42
husband 40
DD1 18
DD2 9
My oldest moved out a week after turning 18. I'm really struggling. Looking for advice.
She is now staying with another friend. Not sure for how long. The last time she asked thus parents friend to live there they said sure, but you'll have to pay $200 a month.
She doesn't know that I know. She told my youngest and she to me today.
"Don't tell mom but I'm not at Es anymore, we got in a fight. I'm staying at Tourette's Syndrome for now but I do not want to move back home"
I feel bad but this us what she wanted. To be an adult. To make my own mistakes.
But I ask myself, was it so bad here that she would rather be 'homeless' than cons back home?
I don't think I even want her back because I dint think things have changed. Not yet anyway. She is welcome jobs but I wi not ask her to come home.
Do I still keep my distance? Our contact is mainly text and it's brief.
I miss her but I think I am getting a little stronger day by day.
Thank you again! I've read so many replies to other peoples stories and you women have the best advice. I have even screenshoted a few things said in here for reference.
ME
42
husband 40
DD1 18
DD2 9
My oldest moved out a week after turning 18. I'm really struggling. Looking for advice.