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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 594892" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I honestly think, that a lot of her current issues are about your situation. Your life situation is just so stressful right now that it will be difficult to see which of your daughters issues are internal and which are situational. And I'm afraid that when your family's situation gets calmer, first she will get worst before getting better. And only then you can reliably see what issues she does have.</p><p></p><p>For me for example her being mean to everyone but you is a big give away that part of her issues are about sensitive kid reacting to stressful life situation.</p><p></p><p>Don't get me wrong. I'm not in any way implying you would be screwing it up. Sometimes life throws us curve balls and we just have to try to survive. But yeah, especially our more sensitive kids tend to react badly to challenging family situations. Not much you could do to that right now, except try to pinpoint and reinforce things that make her feel safe. And when you get her evaluated and get diagnosis, do remember, that they are what she displays just now. When situation calms down, she may display something else.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 594892, member: 14557"] I honestly think, that a lot of her current issues are about your situation. Your life situation is just so stressful right now that it will be difficult to see which of your daughters issues are internal and which are situational. And I'm afraid that when your family's situation gets calmer, first she will get worst before getting better. And only then you can reliably see what issues she does have. For me for example her being mean to everyone but you is a big give away that part of her issues are about sensitive kid reacting to stressful life situation. Don't get me wrong. I'm not in any way implying you would be screwing it up. Sometimes life throws us curve balls and we just have to try to survive. But yeah, especially our more sensitive kids tend to react badly to challenging family situations. Not much you could do to that right now, except try to pinpoint and reinforce things that make her feel safe. And when you get her evaluated and get diagnosis, do remember, that they are what she displays just now. When situation calms down, she may display something else. [/QUOTE]
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