I'm so glad I found this site, I don't know who to turn to and I'm so worried! My son has been smoking weed since 17, he's 19 now. He's gotten arrested for possesion. He's stolen precious things from us, shown huge disrespect & lies all the time. We've kicked him out 3 times because of it all. Now his father & him don't speak to each other and I'm trying to keep the peace. He's been out of our home for 3 months now and has been working 2 part time jobs with no car. Now recently he told me he's quitting his jobs, moving to another city, and has no job but will be living with his 4 friends in a 1 bedroom apartment. He plans to look for a job there. He keeps telling me that his friends all smoke but their parents don't kick them out and that we are being unfair. He tells me that he stresses all the time because of us & that he doesn't care about his life and may not make it another year. I'm afraid he will get in more trouble with the law, not find a job, maybe get addicted to more drugs, or get beat up, so many worries... My question is, do we try to bring him home again even though he says he won't stop smoking or do we let him take his chances and move away? Are we being unreasonable?? Thank you for your support!