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<blockquote data-quote="MMouse" data-source="post: 175413" data-attributes="member: 5588"><p>Thank you Marguerite. I still just so mad....I do bible study with these kids every weekday, we had a VERY open relationship and I've always put so much trust in them. While they say there was no actual sex involved, I'm so worried about that aspect. I mean, what if it was oral? What if it was anal? Again....I'm just so worried about what is going to come out. I can't sleep because everytime I shut my eyes I see my babies doing things and lying to me for YEARS about it. I can remember going to their rooms to hand them clean laundry...etc and they'd be playing together (which was an odd occurance) and I would just think "GREAT, they're actually getting along today".....now all I can think about is that they had just enough time to pull up pants and 'look' like they were playing as I came down the hallway. </p><p> </p><p>I go from feeling so sad I can't stop crying to so mad that I want to punch something. My husband is doing so much better, and he seems to keep a lot of it bottled up.....even though he did cry, a lot, when I told him what I'd found out. And that was very hard to take.</p><p> </p><p>My son phoned and acted as if nothing is wrong. Said he was thinking about it less and asked why his sister was in her room.....HUH? I mean I guess it's good that the family member he's with isn't making him feel guilty or dirty...but he's having a grand old time, playing games and eating out...etc. I guess that P's me off more than anything as I am ripped in two and can't even sleep....but he's just fine, doesn't even realize that he's broken his mother's heart and did things to his sister that he'll never forget. Torn our house apart, changed the way we'll have to monitor them the rest of the time he's in this house, changed my freedom level....since now I'm tied to being the warden all day and can't even go out and spend time in the garden without having all the children follow along.</p><p> </p><p>I really pray that it turns out to be more experimental, once or twice thing....but I'm really worried that I'm going to find out something more in those therapy sessions. I just can't believe this even happened <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p> </p><p>Thanks again for all the support...this board has truly been a lifesaver!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MMouse, post: 175413, member: 5588"] Thank you Marguerite. I still just so mad....I do bible study with these kids every weekday, we had a VERY open relationship and I've always put so much trust in them. While they say there was no actual sex involved, I'm so worried about that aspect. I mean, what if it was oral? What if it was anal? Again....I'm just so worried about what is going to come out. I can't sleep because everytime I shut my eyes I see my babies doing things and lying to me for YEARS about it. I can remember going to their rooms to hand them clean laundry...etc and they'd be playing together (which was an odd occurance) and I would just think "GREAT, they're actually getting along today".....now all I can think about is that they had just enough time to pull up pants and 'look' like they were playing as I came down the hallway. I go from feeling so sad I can't stop crying to so mad that I want to punch something. My husband is doing so much better, and he seems to keep a lot of it bottled up.....even though he did cry, a lot, when I told him what I'd found out. And that was very hard to take. My son phoned and acted as if nothing is wrong. Said he was thinking about it less and asked why his sister was in her room.....HUH? I mean I guess it's good that the family member he's with isn't making him feel guilty or dirty...but he's having a grand old time, playing games and eating out...etc. I guess that P's me off more than anything as I am ripped in two and can't even sleep....but he's just fine, doesn't even realize that he's broken his mother's heart and did things to his sister that he'll never forget. Torn our house apart, changed the way we'll have to monitor them the rest of the time he's in this house, changed my freedom level....since now I'm tied to being the warden all day and can't even go out and spend time in the garden without having all the children follow along. I really pray that it turns out to be more experimental, once or twice thing....but I'm really worried that I'm going to find out something more in those therapy sessions. I just can't believe this even happened :( Thanks again for all the support...this board has truly been a lifesaver!!! [/QUOTE]
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