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<blockquote data-quote="1234567" data-source="post: 175696"><p>I know this is hard to talk about, but there are so many unanswered questions it would make it hard to proceed.</p><p> </p><p>1. What did you find on her underwear? If it was semen, then honestly I have a hard time thinking that sex did not occur. However, I'm not totally sold on the idea that the sex play was consentual at all. While I wouldn't make accusations, I think I might lay low, and not say much other than reaffirming my love for the kids until after the counseling. If the sex play wasn't consentual, and your daughter has been molested, making her feel badly about the situation will just do more damange. </p><p> </p><p>I'm not saying it happened. I hope it DIDN'T happen that way, but I do think you need to be very careful just in CASE it happened that way. </p><p> </p><p>If it was just her discharge on her undies, that is totally and completely normal, and wouldn't necessarily indicate any sex play at all. </p><p> </p><p>2. I know you're sad and disgusted, but you really need to find out more about what they are saying happened, especially before they can get together and get their stories straight. If it was sex play (touching, etc.) from a few years ago, honestly, I'd tell them it wasn't appropriate at ALL, and then drop it. Just not that big of a deal, honestly. If it's continued over years, or involves more than touching, I'd probably pursue therapy. </p><p> </p><p>I guess my point is just be careful making your daughter think she has done something digusting and wrong before you are 100% sure she has been a consentual partner.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1234567, post: 175696"] I know this is hard to talk about, but there are so many unanswered questions it would make it hard to proceed. 1. What did you find on her underwear? If it was semen, then honestly I have a hard time thinking that sex did not occur. However, I'm not totally sold on the idea that the sex play was consentual at all. While I wouldn't make accusations, I think I might lay low, and not say much other than reaffirming my love for the kids until after the counseling. If the sex play wasn't consentual, and your daughter has been molested, making her feel badly about the situation will just do more damange. I'm not saying it happened. I hope it DIDN'T happen that way, but I do think you need to be very careful just in CASE it happened that way. If it was just her discharge on her undies, that is totally and completely normal, and wouldn't necessarily indicate any sex play at all. 2. I know you're sad and disgusted, but you really need to find out more about what they are saying happened, especially before they can get together and get their stories straight. If it was sex play (touching, etc.) from a few years ago, honestly, I'd tell them it wasn't appropriate at ALL, and then drop it. Just not that big of a deal, honestly. If it's continued over years, or involves more than touching, I'd probably pursue therapy. I guess my point is just be careful making your daughter think she has done something digusting and wrong before you are 100% sure she has been a consentual partner. [/QUOTE]
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