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<blockquote data-quote="MMouse" data-source="post: 176419" data-attributes="member: 5588"><p>Thank you again to everyone who has been such a great support. It seems this went on for years...which again is upsetting. I just really wish our therapy appointment was sooner and we could work some of this out. I go from crying to screaming mad....and this isn't good for my other children, or my marriage. I guess what gets me the most is my daughter doesn't even act differently, still the 'baby'....she's actually acting quite spoiled lately, which is making it harder to keep from yelling at her. I know that yelling isn't making things better...ironically my yelling will probably scar her more than from years of fooling around with her brother.....but still I am just to the point of a major breakdown and don't know where to turn from here.</p><p> </p><p>We only have a 3 bedroom house. The girls shared a room and the boys shared a room. So we've had to turn the house upside down to put a safety plan in place, our adopted children are upset because I'm upset, my ds has been sent home with family and comes to 'visit', but cries when he leaves.....so again, I'm just doing all the wrong things and on a bad road. I can't tell any of my friends or family, as they would pass judgement before even knowing what went on. Friends would think that when their kids spent the night in the past that something happened to them....etc. I feel like I'm wearing a big sign with this around my neck though....and that if my 2 oldest have to go away that people will think I 'lost' my kids....never think that maybe they did something and got taken away. And I can't tell my family.....this would kill my family!!! They thought so highly of these children.</p><p> </p><p>So again, just on a really bad road right now and I just don't see it leading anywhere good....ever <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p> </p><p>Thanks again everyone!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MMouse, post: 176419, member: 5588"] Thank you again to everyone who has been such a great support. It seems this went on for years...which again is upsetting. I just really wish our therapy appointment was sooner and we could work some of this out. I go from crying to screaming mad....and this isn't good for my other children, or my marriage. I guess what gets me the most is my daughter doesn't even act differently, still the 'baby'....she's actually acting quite spoiled lately, which is making it harder to keep from yelling at her. I know that yelling isn't making things better...ironically my yelling will probably scar her more than from years of fooling around with her brother.....but still I am just to the point of a major breakdown and don't know where to turn from here. We only have a 3 bedroom house. The girls shared a room and the boys shared a room. So we've had to turn the house upside down to put a safety plan in place, our adopted children are upset because I'm upset, my ds has been sent home with family and comes to 'visit', but cries when he leaves.....so again, I'm just doing all the wrong things and on a bad road. I can't tell any of my friends or family, as they would pass judgement before even knowing what went on. Friends would think that when their kids spent the night in the past that something happened to them....etc. I feel like I'm wearing a big sign with this around my neck though....and that if my 2 oldest have to go away that people will think I 'lost' my kids....never think that maybe they did something and got taken away. And I can't tell my family.....this would kill my family!!! They thought so highly of these children. So again, just on a really bad road right now and I just don't see it leading anywhere good....ever :( Thanks again everyone!! [/QUOTE]
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