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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 176434" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You don't need to explain anything to anybody, but you need to get to the truth. Whatever happened, it is not your fault. But...</p><p></p><p>I don't believe that your daughter was a consenting partner in this...if so both kids are very sick and very unusual. I'm guessing that when the truth comes out, and it will likely take years, you will see that your daughter was the victim. If it is not dealt with, the kids can forget the trauma and can act out sexually on others with NO memory that it happened to them. Our adopted son had no memory of being abused, but obviously he was, and he acted out on both of our younger kids and had no idea why. He became dangerous in other ways too. You do not want this to lie dormant.</p><p></p><p>This is too serious to wait. Call a counselor who is schooled in handling kids who have been sexually inappropriate (I advise two different counselors). Start yesterday. Somebody who is knowledgeable in the field would NEVER make your kids wait.</p><p></p><p>Please...do not treat your daughter like she did anything wrong or you WILL scar her for life. She and your son already have serious problems. I urge you not to make it worse by judging them before you know the real story. You also need to make sure your younger two were not victims. It will be hard and you will cry a lot and think you can't do it, but if WE got through it (and I'm no rock) anyone can. </p><p></p><p>You don't know the half of it yet. It takes a long time to get to the truth.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 176434, member: 1550"] You don't need to explain anything to anybody, but you need to get to the truth. Whatever happened, it is not your fault. But... I don't believe that your daughter was a consenting partner in this...if so both kids are very sick and very unusual. I'm guessing that when the truth comes out, and it will likely take years, you will see that your daughter was the victim. If it is not dealt with, the kids can forget the trauma and can act out sexually on others with NO memory that it happened to them. Our adopted son had no memory of being abused, but obviously he was, and he acted out on both of our younger kids and had no idea why. He became dangerous in other ways too. You do not want this to lie dormant. This is too serious to wait. Call a counselor who is schooled in handling kids who have been sexually inappropriate (I advise two different counselors). Start yesterday. Somebody who is knowledgeable in the field would NEVER make your kids wait. Please...do not treat your daughter like she did anything wrong or you WILL scar her for life. She and your son already have serious problems. I urge you not to make it worse by judging them before you know the real story. You also need to make sure your younger two were not victims. It will be hard and you will cry a lot and think you can't do it, but if WE got through it (and I'm no rock) anyone can. You don't know the half of it yet. It takes a long time to get to the truth. [/QUOTE]
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