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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 176578" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I'm with MWM. There are many reasons why your daughter would lie about her involvement. Protecting her brother, fear of threats made against her or someone/something she loves, fear that it will break your heart, fear that she will be seen only as an incest victim from now on, etc...</p><p></p><p>It's not at all unusual that a child who is coerced or bullied into incest becomes sexualized over a period of time, and that part of that sexualizaton involves their abuser. I don't think I would wait until a sexual abuse specialist can be found. I would get them and you to see someone ASAP. Have you taken her to her pediatrician? You know that being sexually active she now needs to be examined, right?</p><p></p><p>by the way, I don't think you ever answered. Why is your daughter in her room all day? Is this what she would normally be doing, or is this a change for her? If it is a change for her, why the change? Your idea or hers? If it's a change, it should be stopped. I know it's hard but she's your daughter, and whatever her role in this was, she shouldn't be made to feel that you are so shocked and disgusted by it that she has to stay in her room to make it easier on you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 176578, member: 99"] I'm with MWM. There are many reasons why your daughter would lie about her involvement. Protecting her brother, fear of threats made against her or someone/something she loves, fear that it will break your heart, fear that she will be seen only as an incest victim from now on, etc... It's not at all unusual that a child who is coerced or bullied into incest becomes sexualized over a period of time, and that part of that sexualizaton involves their abuser. I don't think I would wait until a sexual abuse specialist can be found. I would get them and you to see someone ASAP. Have you taken her to her pediatrician? You know that being sexually active she now needs to be examined, right? by the way, I don't think you ever answered. Why is your daughter in her room all day? Is this what she would normally be doing, or is this a change for her? If it is a change for her, why the change? Your idea or hers? If it's a change, it should be stopped. I know it's hard but she's your daughter, and whatever her role in this was, she shouldn't be made to feel that you are so shocked and disgusted by it that she has to stay in her room to make it easier on you. [/QUOTE]
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