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<blockquote data-quote="MMouse" data-source="post: 176826" data-attributes="member: 5588"><p>Marguerite, you don't know how right you are. We've always known she is very very vunerable, and she's always been a magnet for friends at school that 'abuse' her. We've talked to her about it, done everything we know how to as parents, told her that she doesn't deserve friends that make up stories because they know she'll believe them...etc.</p><p> </p><p>Sadly, it hasn't seemed to work. She's came home crying saying that her friends will write her letters telling her that so and so likes her, as a joke. She's given boys 'pencils' to be her boyfriend if/when they break up with other girls. It's really sad what happens, even in elementary this was going on. </p><p> </p><p>She stays nervous, has warts on her hands that embarrass her....but the doctors tell us there is nothing they can do for them other than the freezing we already did and that they'll just have to run their course. </p><p> </p><p>She's never told us that my ds (her brother) was sorry he did it, that's what he voiced to us. That he was always really sick when he did it, and felt bad.....but that she would come to him sometimes too. So again, while he may have been the aggressor in the beginning, she's somehow decided that this is okay and she's seeking something that we're not providing for her. </p><p> </p><p>She's always been a cuddly child, loving and affectionate. She's a lot like me, wears her heart on her sleeve....etc. So again, I'm not a therapist and have no idea why this has went on so long....or why it's become somewhat of a normal thing for them. I have no idea when the last time was, but know it started years ago. </p><p> </p><p>My son told us that he heard of all these sexual things in middle school, but by all accounts....they began this in elementary (8 or 9 years old).....so something isn't adding up.</p><p> </p><p>He knew not to actually have normal sex with her.....so we know that something tells him that is wrong, but again I'm just worried about other types of sex that he may not realize are sex (like a certain former president). I explained to my ds that anal and oral are both SEX, and he needed to realize that. I've asked him if anyone showed him that, or did it to him and he always says no.......it just doesn't make sense.</p><p> </p><p>There will be a long long road of therapy for both of them. And sadly we're just not sure how this will all play out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MMouse, post: 176826, member: 5588"] Marguerite, you don't know how right you are. We've always known she is very very vunerable, and she's always been a magnet for friends at school that 'abuse' her. We've talked to her about it, done everything we know how to as parents, told her that she doesn't deserve friends that make up stories because they know she'll believe them...etc. Sadly, it hasn't seemed to work. She's came home crying saying that her friends will write her letters telling her that so and so likes her, as a joke. She's given boys 'pencils' to be her boyfriend if/when they break up with other girls. It's really sad what happens, even in elementary this was going on. She stays nervous, has warts on her hands that embarrass her....but the doctors tell us there is nothing they can do for them other than the freezing we already did and that they'll just have to run their course. She's never told us that my ds (her brother) was sorry he did it, that's what he voiced to us. That he was always really sick when he did it, and felt bad.....but that she would come to him sometimes too. So again, while he may have been the aggressor in the beginning, she's somehow decided that this is okay and she's seeking something that we're not providing for her. She's always been a cuddly child, loving and affectionate. She's a lot like me, wears her heart on her sleeve....etc. So again, I'm not a therapist and have no idea why this has went on so long....or why it's become somewhat of a normal thing for them. I have no idea when the last time was, but know it started years ago. My son told us that he heard of all these sexual things in middle school, but by all accounts....they began this in elementary (8 or 9 years old).....so something isn't adding up. He knew not to actually have normal sex with her.....so we know that something tells him that is wrong, but again I'm just worried about other types of sex that he may not realize are sex (like a certain former president). I explained to my ds that anal and oral are both SEX, and he needed to realize that. I've asked him if anyone showed him that, or did it to him and he always says no.......it just doesn't make sense. There will be a long long road of therapy for both of them. And sadly we're just not sure how this will all play out. [/QUOTE]
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