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Sigh.....difficult child is not good again
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 568663" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I'm so sorry you have to worry like this. Especially in Christmas time and just before you are off for Christmas. </p><p></p><p>I don't want to sound cruel, but when he is still stubborn enough to resist all his good options, he isn't suffering too terribly. And yeah, I know they can be incredibly, insufferably, insanely stubborn (remember my boy just few days ago deciding to jump up and down stairs for two and half hours rather than picking a trash out from floor, full well knowing he would be jumping until he would give in.) His workplace will likely soon ban him from spending time in there outside his sifts. That is when he has to choose what he is going to do. And as much as it hurts you and him, it seems that he needs to experience that back wall (that I talked in the same post that stairs jumping, it is the concept in our culture, that some people just need to find that back wall they can not get through or around before they change direction and correct themselves. In our country there are two very last back walls, other is the secure wing in the most secure prison we have and other one is the secure wing in the mental institution for criminally insane and no-criminal mentally ill who are very challenging (and violent) to treat. Most people find their back wall long before that. i hope, that when this situation develops, it will be your son's back wall.)</p><p></p><p>i can only imagine how much it hurts for you to see him like that. But he has so much strengths, he will pull through this. Even though it will hurt both him and you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 568663, member: 14557"] I'm so sorry you have to worry like this. Especially in Christmas time and just before you are off for Christmas. I don't want to sound cruel, but when he is still stubborn enough to resist all his good options, he isn't suffering too terribly. And yeah, I know they can be incredibly, insufferably, insanely stubborn (remember my boy just few days ago deciding to jump up and down stairs for two and half hours rather than picking a trash out from floor, full well knowing he would be jumping until he would give in.) His workplace will likely soon ban him from spending time in there outside his sifts. That is when he has to choose what he is going to do. And as much as it hurts you and him, it seems that he needs to experience that back wall (that I talked in the same post that stairs jumping, it is the concept in our culture, that some people just need to find that back wall they can not get through or around before they change direction and correct themselves. In our country there are two very last back walls, other is the secure wing in the most secure prison we have and other one is the secure wing in the mental institution for criminally insane and no-criminal mentally ill who are very challenging (and violent) to treat. Most people find their back wall long before that. i hope, that when this situation develops, it will be your son's back wall.) i can only imagine how much it hurts for you to see him like that. But he has so much strengths, he will pull through this. Even though it will hurt both him and you. [/QUOTE]
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