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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 242980" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>I don't think this lady has a single clue what it means to take care of ONE baby. She seems so incompetent. To her, you have the baby and then mom and dad will take care of both you and baby. "It is not about the money" because it is all about the ATTENTION. She loves the attention. She wants her parents to continue to coddle her and enable her foolish decisions (foolish for her because she is not responsible enough to live up to her obligations). She wants the attention of her church and community. The more babies, the more HELP. And of course, people will help because they are doing this for those kids, not for her. How many of us would turn our back on her babies just because she is manipulative? Of course her church, community, and parents are going to make sure those babies are safe and well cared for because they know she has no clue what it takes and probably will refuse to do the work anyway.</p><p></p><p>There are people out there that can handle a large number of kids at one time - I do not feel she is one of them. </p><p></p><p>As for the law suit, if she did seriously injure her back, how could she have carried and delivered those babies? If she indeed has a bad back,that would be part of her "poor me - I need help" story DURING her pregnancy, not, "Oh yeah, forgot - I have a bad back" Like she is trying to pull out all the whines possible to manipulate anyone she can to step forward and do the physical work of parenting. And, "It is not about the money", I need funds to buy diapers and food for all these kids. (I hope there is not a company out there to donate a year's worth) How is she going to bond with any of these kids while she is looking for others to do her parenting work?</p><p></p><p>In a nutshell, my gut tells me this is so wrong because she is seeking attention for herself - she loves the lime light and if having lots of babies will give it to her than so be it. So unfair to those kids.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 242980, member: 5096"] I don't think this lady has a single clue what it means to take care of ONE baby. She seems so incompetent. To her, you have the baby and then mom and dad will take care of both you and baby. "It is not about the money" because it is all about the ATTENTION. She loves the attention. She wants her parents to continue to coddle her and enable her foolish decisions (foolish for her because she is not responsible enough to live up to her obligations). She wants the attention of her church and community. The more babies, the more HELP. And of course, people will help because they are doing this for those kids, not for her. How many of us would turn our back on her babies just because she is manipulative? Of course her church, community, and parents are going to make sure those babies are safe and well cared for because they know she has no clue what it takes and probably will refuse to do the work anyway. There are people out there that can handle a large number of kids at one time - I do not feel she is one of them. As for the law suit, if she did seriously injure her back, how could she have carried and delivered those babies? If she indeed has a bad back,that would be part of her "poor me - I need help" story DURING her pregnancy, not, "Oh yeah, forgot - I have a bad back" Like she is trying to pull out all the whines possible to manipulate anyone she can to step forward and do the physical work of parenting. And, "It is not about the money", I need funds to buy diapers and food for all these kids. (I hope there is not a company out there to donate a year's worth) How is she going to bond with any of these kids while she is looking for others to do her parenting work? In a nutshell, my gut tells me this is so wrong because she is seeking attention for herself - she loves the lime light and if having lots of babies will give it to her than so be it. So unfair to those kids. [/QUOTE]
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