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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 566359"><p>Thanks all.. A friend of mine in CO checked with a cop friend of hers and he told her it was not a crime not to have ID and a cop who told him he could be arrested was just being a jerk.... but clearly it helps on several fronts to have an ID and this at least has made difficult child start figuring out what he need to do to get one. I found his birth certificate and sent it to the place he told me to send it to yesterday. </p><p></p><p>And I am doing better.... the reality of his situation kind of just hit me in the gut that night.... but it is his reality and the truth is if he really wants help he can find it and we would help him.</p><p></p><p>I just have to keep reining myself in and think carefully before i say anything so that I dont jump in to rescue him and do something stupid like offer to get him a hotel room!!!</p><p></p><p>I think the other reality that hit me is he is still the same, he hasnt really changed. He still had the attitude etc that would make me not want to live with him or deal with him every day.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 566359"] Thanks all.. A friend of mine in CO checked with a cop friend of hers and he told her it was not a crime not to have ID and a cop who told him he could be arrested was just being a jerk.... but clearly it helps on several fronts to have an ID and this at least has made difficult child start figuring out what he need to do to get one. I found his birth certificate and sent it to the place he told me to send it to yesterday. And I am doing better.... the reality of his situation kind of just hit me in the gut that night.... but it is his reality and the truth is if he really wants help he can find it and we would help him. I just have to keep reining myself in and think carefully before i say anything so that I dont jump in to rescue him and do something stupid like offer to get him a hotel room!!! I think the other reality that hit me is he is still the same, he hasnt really changed. He still had the attitude etc that would make me not want to live with him or deal with him every day. TL [/QUOTE]
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