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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 582774" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I talked with both difficult child and one of the coaches today. difficult child seems to be getting quite argumentative and is pushing his boundaries. Really hates that zero tolerance is again executed to the t, had some attitude and hurled some not so nice things to me. Has still played well and is angry that everyone 'is on his business' even though he is just fine. So he is being total peach. According to coach he has been mostly fine, if little argumentative, in team practises but has been pushing him a lot when there are less people around. Regular season is close to the end so they can not afford any distractions now and difficult child has been warned that if he gets too disruptive he will be moved to injured list and to practise with injured players. He seems to be heading to that if he continues to escalate. </p><p></p><p>Good news is that he is acting up in safe environment and seems to be handling things more responsible outside of that. I was also so spooked about zombi-like difficult child that I almost like that we are back to old pain in the bottom difficult child. And while I hate it that he is disciplined so much and harshly when he is hurting, I can understand the logic. If nothing is expected from him and if he gets scot-free of behaving badly, it really is likely he would reduce his own expectations for himself. And it would not be any favour for him to teach him to use feeling bad and having tough time as an excuse for bad behaviour. No one can take the hurt away and if he wants nice things from life, he has to play with same rules as everyone else. There are no cosmic free kicks for those who have had bad things happen to them. But yeah, still hurts my heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 582774, member: 14557"] I talked with both difficult child and one of the coaches today. difficult child seems to be getting quite argumentative and is pushing his boundaries. Really hates that zero tolerance is again executed to the t, had some attitude and hurled some not so nice things to me. Has still played well and is angry that everyone 'is on his business' even though he is just fine. So he is being total peach. According to coach he has been mostly fine, if little argumentative, in team practises but has been pushing him a lot when there are less people around. Regular season is close to the end so they can not afford any distractions now and difficult child has been warned that if he gets too disruptive he will be moved to injured list and to practise with injured players. He seems to be heading to that if he continues to escalate. Good news is that he is acting up in safe environment and seems to be handling things more responsible outside of that. I was also so spooked about zombi-like difficult child that I almost like that we are back to old pain in the bottom difficult child. And while I hate it that he is disciplined so much and harshly when he is hurting, I can understand the logic. If nothing is expected from him and if he gets scot-free of behaving badly, it really is likely he would reduce his own expectations for himself. And it would not be any favour for him to teach him to use feeling bad and having tough time as an excuse for bad behaviour. No one can take the hurt away and if he wants nice things from life, he has to play with same rules as everyone else. There are no cosmic free kicks for those who have had bad things happen to them. But yeah, still hurts my heart. [/QUOTE]
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