JJJ
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Kanga was obnoxious to me the last time we talked so I am taking a break from talking with her for a while -- so far just a week but I'm nowhere near ready to speak to her again. (The call ended with me telling her that if she followed through on her threats for her post-18 behavior that we'd get a restraining order so fast her head would spin.)
Meanwhile, she is spinning fairy tales to husband -- privlidges she is getting, etc. and complaining about how I hurt her feelings (cause I should know that threats/violence is just who she is and I shouldn't protect the others). Mostly I don't ask and he only tells me some of it. Today her new therapist called just to review her history with us to make sure that she has the important parts. Sad, but I can hit all the highlights without even thinking. This therapist seems good and she confirmed that to her knowledge (as of the treatment team meeting a few hours before) that none of those privledges had been granted, although Kanga did request them -- but she was caught AGAIN trying to get a boy to sneak into her room. She said that Kanga wants more freedom but shows no desire to follow the treatment plan to get them; that she will do the parts of the treatment plan that she feels like but that, especially when it comes to boys, if she doesn't want to follow the rules, she just won't.
therapist seemed to have really read Kanga's case file and have met with the therapist that is leaving about her. The only thing that she didn't sem to have gotten was the long history of false allegations that Kanga has. She knew there'd been a couple but not how many over the past 10 years and the increasing number of people she has accused. I think it ended Kanga's dream of getting a community mentor family with whom to spend her holidays.
therapist is 100% in favor of current plan to kep Kanga in the full-supervision unit until the end of the upcoming school year and then to move her to the transitional living apartments next summer. No one thinks Kanga will be ready, we all agree that it is a disaster waiting to happen, but if we do not at least move her there, she will walk at 18 cause "ain't no one gonna tell (her) how to roll".
Eeyore and Piglet were annoyed that talking to therapist almost made us late for their movie with their friends. Even out of the home for 3+ years and she's still messing with their lives! lol
Meanwhile, she is spinning fairy tales to husband -- privlidges she is getting, etc. and complaining about how I hurt her feelings (cause I should know that threats/violence is just who she is and I shouldn't protect the others). Mostly I don't ask and he only tells me some of it. Today her new therapist called just to review her history with us to make sure that she has the important parts. Sad, but I can hit all the highlights without even thinking. This therapist seems good and she confirmed that to her knowledge (as of the treatment team meeting a few hours before) that none of those privledges had been granted, although Kanga did request them -- but she was caught AGAIN trying to get a boy to sneak into her room. She said that Kanga wants more freedom but shows no desire to follow the treatment plan to get them; that she will do the parts of the treatment plan that she feels like but that, especially when it comes to boys, if she doesn't want to follow the rules, she just won't.
therapist seemed to have really read Kanga's case file and have met with the therapist that is leaving about her. The only thing that she didn't sem to have gotten was the long history of false allegations that Kanga has. She knew there'd been a couple but not how many over the past 10 years and the increasing number of people she has accused. I think it ended Kanga's dream of getting a community mentor family with whom to spend her holidays.
therapist is 100% in favor of current plan to kep Kanga in the full-supervision unit until the end of the upcoming school year and then to move her to the transitional living apartments next summer. No one thinks Kanga will be ready, we all agree that it is a disaster waiting to happen, but if we do not at least move her there, she will walk at 18 cause "ain't no one gonna tell (her) how to roll".
Eeyore and Piglet were annoyed that talking to therapist almost made us late for their movie with their friends. Even out of the home for 3+ years and she's still messing with their lives! lol