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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 449820" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Hi. This just isn't sitting right with me. Your sig says that he's Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). In my experience sneaky and Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) just do not happen together. It may APPEAR to be sneaky but with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) that thought process is generally lacking. You say he has been doing great and not raging any more. Has he been in therapy? Is it possible that he was TAUGHT to calm down, lower his voice and express his anger using words instead of yells?</p><p></p><p>in my opinion it sounds as if he had a valid reason to be angry. I've gotten angry when my computer isn't working right, and if I even SUSPECT that one of the kids was on it my anger gets directed at them. This is quite normal. The way the anger is EXPRESSED is the key. So exactly how do you expect him to express this anger? I was missing this step with DD1 (NOT Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)) She'd bottle all her anger up and then it would just erupt out of her. Not knowingly, I was part of the problem as was the school because small age appropriate expressions of anger are not "allowed" - I hate you, shut up, you're stupid. What the school and I neglected to do were offer the 'substitute phrasing'. We just assumed the kids would figure it out on their own. I'm sure some did, but mine have not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 449820, member: 11965"] Hi. This just isn't sitting right with me. Your sig says that he's Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). In my experience sneaky and Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) just do not happen together. It may APPEAR to be sneaky but with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) that thought process is generally lacking. You say he has been doing great and not raging any more. Has he been in therapy? Is it possible that he was TAUGHT to calm down, lower his voice and express his anger using words instead of yells? in my opinion it sounds as if he had a valid reason to be angry. I've gotten angry when my computer isn't working right, and if I even SUSPECT that one of the kids was on it my anger gets directed at them. This is quite normal. The way the anger is EXPRESSED is the key. So exactly how do you expect him to express this anger? I was missing this step with DD1 (NOT Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)) She'd bottle all her anger up and then it would just erupt out of her. Not knowingly, I was part of the problem as was the school because small age appropriate expressions of anger are not "allowed" - I hate you, shut up, you're stupid. What the school and I neglected to do were offer the 'substitute phrasing'. We just assumed the kids would figure it out on their own. I'm sure some did, but mine have not. [/QUOTE]
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