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So apparently he is coming home on Wednesday
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 528495" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Your house, your rules. When he is the adult AND paying the bills, he can set the rules. Untl he pays ALL household bills, not just pays rent to you once he turns 18, he cannot set rules or buck them. Period. Don't like it? Don't come home. Don't care what the therapist says. Many therapists have goofy ideas about lettng kids negotiate rules or have things their way. THis is NOT reality - the world doesn't give a dang if he likes the rules. The world just wants him to pay his way and follow the rules or go to jail/prison. Period.</p><p></p><p>Let him stay in discomfort at girlfriend's house for a while and BEG to come home before you let him. Until her parents THROW him out and he has been homeless a day or two in the park, he won't appreciate home.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 528495, member: 1233"] Your house, your rules. When he is the adult AND paying the bills, he can set the rules. Untl he pays ALL household bills, not just pays rent to you once he turns 18, he cannot set rules or buck them. Period. Don't like it? Don't come home. Don't care what the therapist says. Many therapists have goofy ideas about lettng kids negotiate rules or have things their way. THis is NOT reality - the world doesn't give a dang if he likes the rules. The world just wants him to pay his way and follow the rules or go to jail/prison. Period. Let him stay in discomfort at girlfriend's house for a while and BEG to come home before you let him. Until her parents THROW him out and he has been homeless a day or two in the park, he won't appreciate home. [/QUOTE]
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