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So difficult child's new love is.....
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 381308" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>She sounds like she's attracted to bad boys. I wonder what it is that hooks her into them? Is she trying to rescue them? Is this her form of rebellion? Is she wanting to feel "cool" by hanging with someone dangerous? Is it the adrenalin? Is she trying to challenge you?</p><p></p><p>Why not ask her what it is about this boy that she likes. Not "What do you see in him?" because that sounds too critical. Just an impartial, "There must be something about him that you really find enticing. What is it, do you think?"</p><p></p><p>There is no right answer to this question, you don't even need to know the answer yourself. But SHE needs to be thinking about the reasons, now and with other BFs.</p><p></p><p>Because it sounds to me like she is not thinking.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 381308, member: 1991"] She sounds like she's attracted to bad boys. I wonder what it is that hooks her into them? Is she trying to rescue them? Is this her form of rebellion? Is she wanting to feel "cool" by hanging with someone dangerous? Is it the adrenalin? Is she trying to challenge you? Why not ask her what it is about this boy that she likes. Not "What do you see in him?" because that sounds too critical. Just an impartial, "There must be something about him that you really find enticing. What is it, do you think?" There is no right answer to this question, you don't even need to know the answer yourself. But SHE needs to be thinking about the reasons, now and with other BFs. Because it sounds to me like she is not thinking. Marg [/QUOTE]
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