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SO Frustrated with husband!
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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 688142" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Let me start off by saying, I certainly think your husband should do what makes you most comfortable in light of your PTSD.</p><p></p><p>That being said, if it were me, I would be more comfortable keeping it in the kitchen. Putting it in the bedroom closet just seems to make it "bad" - as in hidden, sneaky, shameful, forbidden - and that equals tempting. It seems healthier to me to have such things open. Of course your kids shouldn't drink. #1, they're kids and not old enough legally. #2, genetics. But 1 and 2 don't apply to your husband. Maybe your husband feels like I do, but he doesn't want to say so?</p><p></p><p>Of course, being out in the open didn't stop my kid from doing things he shouldn't, so what do I know?</p><p></p><p>If you guys can't talk about it and agree - I think InsaneCdn has the best solution. Let hubby buy a drink out once in a blue moon and don't have it at home at all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 688142, member: 17309"] Let me start off by saying, I certainly think your husband should do what makes you most comfortable in light of your PTSD. That being said, if it were me, I would be more comfortable keeping it in the kitchen. Putting it in the bedroom closet just seems to make it "bad" - as in hidden, sneaky, shameful, forbidden - and that equals tempting. It seems healthier to me to have such things open. Of course your kids shouldn't drink. #1, they're kids and not old enough legally. #2, genetics. But 1 and 2 don't apply to your husband. Maybe your husband feels like I do, but he doesn't want to say so? Of course, being out in the open didn't stop my kid from doing things he shouldn't, so what do I know? If you guys can't talk about it and agree - I think InsaneCdn has the best solution. Let hubby buy a drink out once in a blue moon and don't have it at home at all. [/QUOTE]
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