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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 485571" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I think this happens to us too. Seems like there probably is some part of the Nobody loves me thing in there, at least at first. But now it is really his favorite go to tool to get what he wants. It got lots of response so it is natural that he is gonna milk it for all it is worth. So, next step, if therapist can SEE it llike you do, is to go through the difference. To help him to learn different statements when he is into that preschool, I want it I want it I want it, mode. Emotional blackmail wont work. In my house, the rage and aggression was first from medications, now the "threat" of it (he doesn't go there so I know it is not the real deal) seems more learned. Just to get his way when I say no. Very immature behavior and showing a real lack of skills to deal with frustration. </p><p></p><p>I like that, just sit in the shed, actually probably a much better coping mechanism. Hope there is nothing you dont want ruined or that he can hurt himself with in there, sigh. I hate that mode where you are trying to act like what they are doing doesn't bother you at all (never let em see you sweat mode) but you have to pay attention because they really could do something dumb and you have to go into rapid response mode.... yuck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 485571, member: 12886"] I think this happens to us too. Seems like there probably is some part of the Nobody loves me thing in there, at least at first. But now it is really his favorite go to tool to get what he wants. It got lots of response so it is natural that he is gonna milk it for all it is worth. So, next step, if therapist can SEE it llike you do, is to go through the difference. To help him to learn different statements when he is into that preschool, I want it I want it I want it, mode. Emotional blackmail wont work. In my house, the rage and aggression was first from medications, now the "threat" of it (he doesn't go there so I know it is not the real deal) seems more learned. Just to get his way when I say no. Very immature behavior and showing a real lack of skills to deal with frustration. I like that, just sit in the shed, actually probably a much better coping mechanism. Hope there is nothing you dont want ruined or that he can hurt himself with in there, sigh. I hate that mode where you are trying to act like what they are doing doesn't bother you at all (never let em see you sweat mode) but you have to pay attention because they really could do something dumb and you have to go into rapid response mode.... yuck. [/QUOTE]
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