I should never have jinxed myself last week by posting how well easy child/difficult child was doing!
For the last 3 days I have been asking her to wash just a few dishes. Of course, it keeps building but even now it isn't that much. She says she shouldn't have to because this isn't her house. When I told her then maybe it was time to pay us rent or move out. She screamed that she doesn't have enough money to and that she guessed she would have to go to live in the cold park and get hypothermia and then I would feel guilty for the rest of my life and she would never talk to me because it would be my choice she would move out. Never mind, that I am giving her the choice of doing a few dishes. She is also very mad because I took the remote away from her. ARGH!!!! Just when it seemed like progress was being made-SIGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!
Then she said she would just leave them because Dad would get tired of seeing them and do them himself. Next she changed to she would ask him to help and she knew he would. I said that was sad because he isn't feeling well. I warned him she was going to ask. She did and he ended up saying he would! Soooooo...... now I'm not happy with either person. I know husband can't stand the conflict and he knows even though I don't like it I will follow through so he ends up doing it. I know that is how he is and I do get he really can't stand the conflict but I really wish he wouldn't have decided to help her.
Now she just asked me why I was so upset with her??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
She also told me she if having trouble counting her money (which by the way she was doing for about 45 minutes obsessively) and she needs to see a doctor. I don't understand and I am too upset to ask about it.
For the last 3 days I have been asking her to wash just a few dishes. Of course, it keeps building but even now it isn't that much. She says she shouldn't have to because this isn't her house. When I told her then maybe it was time to pay us rent or move out. She screamed that she doesn't have enough money to and that she guessed she would have to go to live in the cold park and get hypothermia and then I would feel guilty for the rest of my life and she would never talk to me because it would be my choice she would move out. Never mind, that I am giving her the choice of doing a few dishes. She is also very mad because I took the remote away from her. ARGH!!!! Just when it seemed like progress was being made-SIGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!
Then she said she would just leave them because Dad would get tired of seeing them and do them himself. Next she changed to she would ask him to help and she knew he would. I said that was sad because he isn't feeling well. I warned him she was going to ask. She did and he ended up saying he would! Soooooo...... now I'm not happy with either person. I know husband can't stand the conflict and he knows even though I don't like it I will follow through so he ends up doing it. I know that is how he is and I do get he really can't stand the conflict but I really wish he wouldn't have decided to help her.
Now she just asked me why I was so upset with her??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
She also told me she if having trouble counting her money (which by the way she was doing for about 45 minutes obsessively) and she needs to see a doctor. I don't understand and I am too upset to ask about it.