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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 29040" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Janet, this is so polar opposite of how you have represented boyfriend in the past. It almost sounds like 2 different people.</p><p>His weaknesses haven't outweighed his contributions to your family. If he is as truly abusive as you suggest then why in a million years would you go back or even consider it?!? I don't understand how one day he is your life and the next day he is portrayed as a unfaithful porn king. I don't understand how or why you walk back into that relationship and then be surprised when it happens again.</p><p></p><p>What happened to the guy who did all those wonderful things? </p><p>As far as your ideas of making him a king is great if it's what floats both of your boats but maybe that wasn't what he was looking for. I don't quite get it but like I said whatever works in a couples relationship to make it healthy and good. </p><p>I do want to point out that you are making your children your priority, but it is not expected that his daughter would be his?</p><p></p><p>I'm not trying to hurt your feelings or make you uncomfortable but maybe presenting a different side. Maybe my definition for abuse is considerably different than yours but he doesn't sound abusive at all even when you share the negative things. </p><p>He sounds like a man who isn't ready to be a one woman man. Not a pleasant experience, maybe a bit of a scoundrel but if he was so bad, why would you want him back?</p><p></p><p>I am so obviously out of touch with the dating world that my jaw is on the floor because of comments about a much loved boyfriend. I'll not comment any more since I obviously don't get it. I hope you heal and find peace.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 29040, member: 3"] Janet, this is so polar opposite of how you have represented boyfriend in the past. It almost sounds like 2 different people. His weaknesses haven't outweighed his contributions to your family. If he is as truly abusive as you suggest then why in a million years would you go back or even consider it?!? I don't understand how one day he is your life and the next day he is portrayed as a unfaithful porn king. I don't understand how or why you walk back into that relationship and then be surprised when it happens again. What happened to the guy who did all those wonderful things? As far as your ideas of making him a king is great if it's what floats both of your boats but maybe that wasn't what he was looking for. I don't quite get it but like I said whatever works in a couples relationship to make it healthy and good. I do want to point out that you are making your children your priority, but it is not expected that his daughter would be his? I'm not trying to hurt your feelings or make you uncomfortable but maybe presenting a different side. Maybe my definition for abuse is considerably different than yours but he doesn't sound abusive at all even when you share the negative things. He sounds like a man who isn't ready to be a one woman man. Not a pleasant experience, maybe a bit of a scoundrel but if he was so bad, why would you want him back? I am so obviously out of touch with the dating world that my jaw is on the floor because of comments about a much loved boyfriend. I'll not comment any more since I obviously don't get it. I hope you heal and find peace. [/QUOTE]
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