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<blockquote data-quote="TYLERFAN" data-source="post: 29225" data-attributes="member: 26"><p>Janet:</p><p></p><p>I am sorry for your pain.</p><p>I remember dating a guy for over a year a few years ago. He was very nice to me, generous and kind to my child. He also had a difficult child. I caught him e-mailing other younger girls not once, but 3 times. It cut to the core of my soul....this betrayal. It hurt sooooo bad, that I have dreams that represent that hurt to this day, even though we are long over ( I broke it up), the feelings of that hurt still remain. It's like an injury that leaves a scar. After alot of soul-searching and crying over this betrayal, I recovered. It took awhile. What was evident was that I overlooked alot of what he made very transparent. That he at 40, wanted a 22 year old girl. He got one and she made his life miserable (lost his job because of her, etc). What goes around comes around.</p><p>I know you have invested alot of feelings into boyfriend. He has told in different ways that he has not done the same. By seeing another woman behind your back, he has broken a sacred trust. Aren't you glad you didn't marry him?</p><p>I am sorry Janet. I remember driving home one night sobbing that noone would ever love me. At 45, I am marrying the absolute love of my soul. I never thought I would ever be this happy. Let boyfriend go and take time to grieve. There will be someone for you Janet, someone who can live up to what you truly deserve.</p><p>God Has A Plan. :angel:</p><p></p><p>Blessings,</p><p>Melissa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TYLERFAN, post: 29225, member: 26"] Janet: I am sorry for your pain. I remember dating a guy for over a year a few years ago. He was very nice to me, generous and kind to my child. He also had a difficult child. I caught him e-mailing other younger girls not once, but 3 times. It cut to the core of my soul....this betrayal. It hurt sooooo bad, that I have dreams that represent that hurt to this day, even though we are long over ( I broke it up), the feelings of that hurt still remain. It's like an injury that leaves a scar. After alot of soul-searching and crying over this betrayal, I recovered. It took awhile. What was evident was that I overlooked alot of what he made very transparent. That he at 40, wanted a 22 year old girl. He got one and she made his life miserable (lost his job because of her, etc). What goes around comes around. I know you have invested alot of feelings into boyfriend. He has told in different ways that he has not done the same. By seeing another woman behind your back, he has broken a sacred trust. Aren't you glad you didn't marry him? I am sorry Janet. I remember driving home one night sobbing that noone would ever love me. At 45, I am marrying the absolute love of my soul. I never thought I would ever be this happy. Let boyfriend go and take time to grieve. There will be someone for you Janet, someone who can live up to what you truly deserve. God Has A Plan. [img]:angel:[/img] Blessings, Melissa [/QUOTE]
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