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<blockquote data-quote="saving grace" data-source="post: 29260" data-attributes="member: 1538"><p>Janet</p><p>I have been thinking about this post for a few days now, I feel so bad that you are in this postion right now. I was thinking of the post you wrote about how you were raised that the man is the king. That you take care of him and love him to make him feel so. What about YOU Janet? Shouldnt he treat you like a queen? I know you say there are many many times that he has treated you like a queen but it should be everyday, all the time, not just certain times. There should never be any betrayel or hurt. </p><p>I had bad dating experiences as well, I was insecure and I had intamcy and trust issues. I met my husband, he had just lost his first wife of Leukemia they had been together 12 years. From day one he treated me with respect, kindness and love. I never NEVER caught him in any form of infidelity. I am the women in his life, I am now his wife, the mother of his child. I had a teenager when he came into my life, he never waivered. difficult child became a difficult child, he never waivered, NOT ONCE. He has expressed frustration and doubt but it has never been about me or leaving me or our relationship. We fight about difficult child but he is in it for the long haul.</p><p></p><p>Janet You deserve the best, you have been through so much in your life, you deserve the kindness and love ALL the time you should not have any doubt in your love. I didnt believe it existed but it does. I believe that things happen for a reason and what your going through is happening for a reason, and I will quote a very wise wise strong independant women I know </p><p>"GOD HAS A PLAN"</p><p></p><p>I also dont know too too much of your upbrining but I can recall some not so nice things you have said of your childhood and of your Mom, so if you were raised to treat a man like a King maybe just mmaybe thats not gonna work, it hasnt worked so far, YOU Janet should be treated that way.</p><p> </p><p>"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you"</p><p></p><p>Sorry for the preaching, I just felt that I needed and wanted to say what I was feeling, sorry If in any way I offended you.</p><p></p><p>Grace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="saving grace, post: 29260, member: 1538"] Janet I have been thinking about this post for a few days now, I feel so bad that you are in this postion right now. I was thinking of the post you wrote about how you were raised that the man is the king. That you take care of him and love him to make him feel so. What about YOU Janet? Shouldnt he treat you like a queen? I know you say there are many many times that he has treated you like a queen but it should be everyday, all the time, not just certain times. There should never be any betrayel or hurt. I had bad dating experiences as well, I was insecure and I had intamcy and trust issues. I met my husband, he had just lost his first wife of Leukemia they had been together 12 years. From day one he treated me with respect, kindness and love. I never NEVER caught him in any form of infidelity. I am the women in his life, I am now his wife, the mother of his child. I had a teenager when he came into my life, he never waivered. difficult child became a difficult child, he never waivered, NOT ONCE. He has expressed frustration and doubt but it has never been about me or leaving me or our relationship. We fight about difficult child but he is in it for the long haul. Janet You deserve the best, you have been through so much in your life, you deserve the kindness and love ALL the time you should not have any doubt in your love. I didnt believe it existed but it does. I believe that things happen for a reason and what your going through is happening for a reason, and I will quote a very wise wise strong independant women I know "GOD HAS A PLAN" I also dont know too too much of your upbrining but I can recall some not so nice things you have said of your childhood and of your Mom, so if you were raised to treat a man like a King maybe just mmaybe thats not gonna work, it hasnt worked so far, YOU Janet should be treated that way. "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you" Sorry for the preaching, I just felt that I needed and wanted to say what I was feeling, sorry If in any way I offended you. Grace [/QUOTE]
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