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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 29286" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>Janet,</p><p></p><p>I am another one who has trouble with the idea of a "king." That puts women in a subserviant role to the king which in my opinion opens the door to abuse or at the very least an imbalance of power in the relationship.</p><p></p><p>However, I understand that some people believe in those roles so it is not my place to judge. I do see, however, that you have been hurt in this relationship. It bothers me that your boyfriend wants to keep you stringing along. It seems like he wants to hedge his bets in case he gets lonely and wants to change his mind.</p><p></p><p>If it were me, I would tell him that since he wants to break up, you want to break all contact. Let him be lonely and realize what he has lost. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry for your pain. It's been a long time since I broke up with someone but I do remember that it does get easier with time.</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 29286, member: 1967"] Janet, I am another one who has trouble with the idea of a "king." That puts women in a subserviant role to the king which in my opinion opens the door to abuse or at the very least an imbalance of power in the relationship. However, I understand that some people believe in those roles so it is not my place to judge. I do see, however, that you have been hurt in this relationship. It bothers me that your boyfriend wants to keep you stringing along. It seems like he wants to hedge his bets in case he gets lonely and wants to change his mind. If it were me, I would tell him that since he wants to break up, you want to break all contact. Let him be lonely and realize what he has lost. I'm sorry for your pain. It's been a long time since I broke up with someone but I do remember that it does get easier with time. ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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