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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 29308" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>I believe in King only if I get to be the Queen. If not, deal is off. </p><p></p><p>It is a partnership. Each person should recognize and know what makes the other happy, angry, sad, hurt, etc. It takes time. If you are aware of your partner and they are making you feel good, you will make them feel good. It is the circle you want to keep spinning. If that circle slows down it becomes wobbly, unbalanced and sways from side to side. That means somebody is not paying attention to their partner, so one of you have to make efforts to get it spinning again so it will be balanced and strong enough to keep spinning. </p><p></p><p>If someone is continually doing or saying things that hurt your feelings it is your job to make them aware of it. If after being made aware of the pain it causes they continue to do and say things that are hurtful, they are not helping to keep the circle spinning. </p><p></p><p>boyfriend can not keep the circle going right now. He may be able to in the future, but he can not right now and therefore, he can not help keep the partnership going strong. One can not do it alone for long. </p><p></p><p>This is why it is important to re-evaluate yourself during this time and make sure you know what makes your circle spin.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 29308, member: 391"] I believe in King only if I get to be the Queen. If not, deal is off. It is a partnership. Each person should recognize and know what makes the other happy, angry, sad, hurt, etc. It takes time. If you are aware of your partner and they are making you feel good, you will make them feel good. It is the circle you want to keep spinning. If that circle slows down it becomes wobbly, unbalanced and sways from side to side. That means somebody is not paying attention to their partner, so one of you have to make efforts to get it spinning again so it will be balanced and strong enough to keep spinning. If someone is continually doing or saying things that hurt your feelings it is your job to make them aware of it. If after being made aware of the pain it causes they continue to do and say things that are hurtful, they are not helping to keep the circle spinning. boyfriend can not keep the circle going right now. He may be able to in the future, but he can not right now and therefore, he can not help keep the partnership going strong. One can not do it alone for long. This is why it is important to re-evaluate yourself during this time and make sure you know what makes your circle spin. [/QUOTE]
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