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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 600910" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I'm sorry you are feeling sad. And understand very well how devastating it has to be to let her go to live with her dad. But maybe at this point it is the best option. You have not failed her, not at all. You have done best you can and you love her enough to see, that under current extremely stressful conditions you are facing, it's better for her to live with her dad, who seems a good dad (even though he didn't live up to par as a husband.) That takes some serious guts.</p><p></p><p>Maybe at this point it is most important to concentrate to how to co-parent her even with the distance. Maybe she is honeymooning or maybe she does better in the environment her dad gives her at the moment. But you are right that her gfgness is not going anywhere. Maybe you were able to see more clearly now what issues she truly has even in these circumstances. Those issues she needs help, interventions and accommodations with. Is her dad ready to be a warrior parent she needs? And can you help him with that?</p><p></p><p>She is a lucky girl to have two loving and dedicated parent even if the distance between you is more than either of you would likely wish.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 600910, member: 14557"] I'm sorry you are feeling sad. And understand very well how devastating it has to be to let her go to live with her dad. But maybe at this point it is the best option. You have not failed her, not at all. You have done best you can and you love her enough to see, that under current extremely stressful conditions you are facing, it's better for her to live with her dad, who seems a good dad (even though he didn't live up to par as a husband.) That takes some serious guts. Maybe at this point it is most important to concentrate to how to co-parent her even with the distance. Maybe she is honeymooning or maybe she does better in the environment her dad gives her at the moment. But you are right that her gfgness is not going anywhere. Maybe you were able to see more clearly now what issues she truly has even in these circumstances. Those issues she needs help, interventions and accommodations with. Is her dad ready to be a warrior parent she needs? And can you help him with that? She is a lucky girl to have two loving and dedicated parent even if the distance between you is more than either of you would likely wish. :hugs: [/QUOTE]
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