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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 472627"><p>You are going to have to find some level of security for your own sanity. I keep a phone in my pocket at all times. I let my neighbors know so if X shows up and I can't call the police one of them might. I keep the doors and windows locked as best I can. When I'm really scared the blinds stay shut. Stop taking the phone calls. If they want to get a hold of you give them a time of day they can call (like between 1pm and 2pm.) If he runs at 2:30 to bad. You'll find out at 1 pm tomorrow. He will do this again so give them power to admit him and give him medications. If that means power of attorney so be it. Set limits and take precautions to keep yourself and DS2 safe. Its an awful way to live but it is doable. And hopefully temporary. If you need to get a protective order against DS1 so the police will get him off your doorstep should he show up then you might need to do that. Or maybe a no trespassing order. I think the parents in the emeritus forum might have more specific instructions. </p><p></p><p>If this is completely off the mark just toss any and all advice I give out the window.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 472627"] You are going to have to find some level of security for your own sanity. I keep a phone in my pocket at all times. I let my neighbors know so if X shows up and I can't call the police one of them might. I keep the doors and windows locked as best I can. When I'm really scared the blinds stay shut. Stop taking the phone calls. If they want to get a hold of you give them a time of day they can call (like between 1pm and 2pm.) If he runs at 2:30 to bad. You'll find out at 1 pm tomorrow. He will do this again so give them power to admit him and give him medications. If that means power of attorney so be it. Set limits and take precautions to keep yourself and DS2 safe. Its an awful way to live but it is doable. And hopefully temporary. If you need to get a protective order against DS1 so the police will get him off your doorstep should he show up then you might need to do that. Or maybe a no trespassing order. I think the parents in the emeritus forum might have more specific instructions. If this is completely off the mark just toss any and all advice I give out the window. [/QUOTE]
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