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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 568500" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>There is NO WAY my husband would take the reins unless forced. By forced I mean pestered and nagged and whined at by ME. I would call him, he would say to do what i thought best. I would say that I don't KNOW what is best and I just don't understand and what to do what to do? I flat out told school that they had to call husband and not me, and when they called anyway? I didn't answer or told them that they had to call husband for this or that reason. Kids asked me to do something? I said "Go ask your father" or "Go call your father." </p><p></p><p>In one single day he got sixteen phone calls from me, the kids and school. I got uber lucky and the school nurse decided that thank you had to have a chicken pox vaccine because he didn't have one. Yes he did but it was in OH and labelled varicella and not chicken pox. I made husband figure out what each shot was. then the nurse decided that he needed the shot because his wasn't after his first birthday. It was the day before his birthday and we had to get a note from the doctor saying that it was not a problem because it was within the 2 weeks before his first birthday.</p><p></p><p>I made husband deal with the school, schedule the appointment for the shot, call again after we got sent home from the shot so that doctor could write a note, ALL of it. I even made him write down directions to the nurse's office at another school (both school nurses are in an office in another elem school).</p><p></p><p>Basicly I took a note out of husband's playbook and reefused to cope with life with-o his intense supervision. If he didn't respond in detail, I messed whatever it was up. He HATED his life that week and gritched a lot. I either ignored it or asked more questions about what he wanted me to do about it. I remembering him telling me that he just wanted me to 'handle everything like you used to! My answer was "Why? You haven't handled any of this stuff, so clearly it isn't important. Since it isn't important enough for you to do or for you to support me over, it isn't enough for me to do.</p><p></p><p>I hated those weeks because he drove me nuts and so did playing the idiot. I would do it again though, because it turned my husband into a better hubby and father.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 568500, member: 1233"] There is NO WAY my husband would take the reins unless forced. By forced I mean pestered and nagged and whined at by ME. I would call him, he would say to do what i thought best. I would say that I don't KNOW what is best and I just don't understand and what to do what to do? I flat out told school that they had to call husband and not me, and when they called anyway? I didn't answer or told them that they had to call husband for this or that reason. Kids asked me to do something? I said "Go ask your father" or "Go call your father." In one single day he got sixteen phone calls from me, the kids and school. I got uber lucky and the school nurse decided that thank you had to have a chicken pox vaccine because he didn't have one. Yes he did but it was in OH and labelled varicella and not chicken pox. I made husband figure out what each shot was. then the nurse decided that he needed the shot because his wasn't after his first birthday. It was the day before his birthday and we had to get a note from the doctor saying that it was not a problem because it was within the 2 weeks before his first birthday. I made husband deal with the school, schedule the appointment for the shot, call again after we got sent home from the shot so that doctor could write a note, ALL of it. I even made him write down directions to the nurse's office at another school (both school nurses are in an office in another elem school). Basicly I took a note out of husband's playbook and reefused to cope with life with-o his intense supervision. If he didn't respond in detail, I messed whatever it was up. He HATED his life that week and gritched a lot. I either ignored it or asked more questions about what he wanted me to do about it. I remembering him telling me that he just wanted me to 'handle everything like you used to! My answer was "Why? You haven't handled any of this stuff, so clearly it isn't important. Since it isn't important enough for you to do or for you to support me over, it isn't enough for me to do. I hated those weeks because he drove me nuts and so did playing the idiot. I would do it again though, because it turned my husband into a better hubby and father. [/QUOTE]
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