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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 528853" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>mog - </p><p></p><p>If you had a crystal ball.....and that scenario played out again? And three days went by in the crystal ball in the blink of an eye while you stood there and worried - BUT instead of NOT knowing that he was out alone in the world, cold, hungry, with no way to court, and shivering somehwere, or plotting his revenge against your house the first time you pulled away to go to work - BUT sitting in a friends house, on their couch talking to that guys Mom shaking his head sided to side and saying "OMG I can't believe I just did what I did - I don't know what 's wrong with me - I.....We.....My MOM.....It was a great day, I went to Church, My Mom cooked out, we were all getting along and then I just flipped and the next thing I know - My MOM called the cops, I can't believe she actually.called.the.cops. (insert your sons laughter here) and his friends laughter - Man I couldn't belive it when they pulled up - My Mom was like ALL Rambo - THROW HIM OUT. - It must have killed her to do that........and then she gets the cop to give me $20.00 bucks and (shows the friends Mom the $20. - I just yelled at her and she's making sure I got money and a coat. I'm such a jerk. I bet she's mad as HADES at me...right now. GAW I am such a dimwitm NOW I have to find a way to court - What are YOU doing next Wednesday - I sure can't ask my Mom now. My Dad would kill me." </p><p></p><p>See - They (our sons) do not ALWAYS sit and think and talk about us like we think - BECAUSE a VERY similar thing happend once with Dude......and I would have bet you my right foot - that he was sitting at his friends house cursing me out - and swearing about me - and instead he was having a conversation about how surprised he was, and how awesome of a Mom I was....(yeah go figure) and ow sad he was that he kept messing up - and how lucky he was to HAVE me for a Mom. </p><p></p><p>So do not always assume that when you do THE WAY RIGHT THING - that they're sitting somewhere plotting cold revenge with malice in their hearts. Sometimes they're having conversations with friends about what total, utter and colossal dimwits they are and HOW they are going to fix the junk they just messed up - and get themselves to their needed appointments. ON THEIR OWN because their Five dollar mouths ran over their two dollar kiesters.....and couldn't make change for a cab ride. </p><p></p><p>Sometimes we take on the weight of the world - and boy sister IS OUR SCALE OFF. - Time to zero out yours. He was wrong - you were right - and if any worry or apology is necessary? It needs to come from your son. </p><p></p><p>Since you don't have a crystal ball? You're just going to have to trust that what you are doing - IS the right thing - because you can't always count on HIM to do the right things. He's a child trying to grow up. You're a grown up......already. It's up to you to lead.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 528853, member: 4964"] mog - If you had a crystal ball.....and that scenario played out again? And three days went by in the crystal ball in the blink of an eye while you stood there and worried - BUT instead of NOT knowing that he was out alone in the world, cold, hungry, with no way to court, and shivering somehwere, or plotting his revenge against your house the first time you pulled away to go to work - BUT sitting in a friends house, on their couch talking to that guys Mom shaking his head sided to side and saying "OMG I can't believe I just did what I did - I don't know what 's wrong with me - I.....We.....My MOM.....It was a great day, I went to Church, My Mom cooked out, we were all getting along and then I just flipped and the next thing I know - My MOM called the cops, I can't believe she actually.called.the.cops. (insert your sons laughter here) and his friends laughter - Man I couldn't belive it when they pulled up - My Mom was like ALL Rambo - THROW HIM OUT. - It must have killed her to do that........and then she gets the cop to give me $20.00 bucks and (shows the friends Mom the $20. - I just yelled at her and she's making sure I got money and a coat. I'm such a jerk. I bet she's mad as HADES at me...right now. GAW I am such a dimwitm NOW I have to find a way to court - What are YOU doing next Wednesday - I sure can't ask my Mom now. My Dad would kill me." See - They (our sons) do not ALWAYS sit and think and talk about us like we think - BECAUSE a VERY similar thing happend once with Dude......and I would have bet you my right foot - that he was sitting at his friends house cursing me out - and swearing about me - and instead he was having a conversation about how surprised he was, and how awesome of a Mom I was....(yeah go figure) and ow sad he was that he kept messing up - and how lucky he was to HAVE me for a Mom. So do not always assume that when you do THE WAY RIGHT THING - that they're sitting somewhere plotting cold revenge with malice in their hearts. Sometimes they're having conversations with friends about what total, utter and colossal dimwits they are and HOW they are going to fix the junk they just messed up - and get themselves to their needed appointments. ON THEIR OWN because their Five dollar mouths ran over their two dollar kiesters.....and couldn't make change for a cab ride. Sometimes we take on the weight of the world - and boy sister IS OUR SCALE OFF. - Time to zero out yours. He was wrong - you were right - and if any worry or apology is necessary? It needs to come from your son. Since you don't have a crystal ball? You're just going to have to trust that what you are doing - IS the right thing - because you can't always count on HIM to do the right things. He's a child trying to grow up. You're a grown up......already. It's up to you to lead. [/QUOTE]
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