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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 499960" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>Yeah, detachment sounds like what's best. I think this was definitely a case where you were "working harder" than she was to get and keep her job. I know you want to do whatever you can to support her in positive decisions.. but at some point, it just becomes a fruitless effort if they're not invested in it themselves. When your life begins to suffer because of the help you are giving, it's time to take a big step back. She's the one whose life should suffer in order to effect change, not yours. Don't take that on for her. </p><p></p><p>Hugs. I know how hard it is to get your hopes up that things are turning around, only to have them dashed once again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 499960, member: 1157"] Yeah, detachment sounds like what's best. I think this was definitely a case where you were "working harder" than she was to get and keep her job. I know you want to do whatever you can to support her in positive decisions.. but at some point, it just becomes a fruitless effort if they're not invested in it themselves. When your life begins to suffer because of the help you are giving, it's time to take a big step back. She's the one whose life should suffer in order to effect change, not yours. Don't take that on for her. Hugs. I know how hard it is to get your hopes up that things are turning around, only to have them dashed once again. [/QUOTE]
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